Emilia Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 He has to be respected and probably does know a lot. Why do you think he has to be respected? If you are calculating and cold-hearted enough, you can sleep with many women too. When it comes to numbers, it's about manipulation, true I suppose that it means knowing a lot. If you look up to someone that clearly thinks so little of other people, why don't you turn into someone like that, yourself?
Author Medium.Lumo Posted July 4, 2014 Author Posted July 4, 2014 Why do you think he has to be respected? If you are calculating and cold-hearted enough, you can sleep with many women too. When it comes to numbers, it's about manipulation, true I suppose that it means knowing a lot. If you look up to someone that clearly thinks so little of other people, why don't you turn into someone like that, yourself? I don't want to do that. I want to be in a relationship. My point is that he clearly knows more about women than most guys or he couldn't have achieved what he has. At a few years younger I have been with 1. What I'd like is to have his skills to manage to get into a relationship.
Emilia Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 I don't want to do that. I want to be in a relationship. My point is that he clearly knows more about women than most guys or he couldn't have achieved what he has. At a few years younger I have been with 1. What I'd like is to have his skills to manage to get into a relationship. but he doesn't want the same things as you, you can't look to him for skills. He is after bedding lots of different women and what we have been telling you on this board - and hopefully finding out for yourself - is that for a relationship you need a completely different mindset and skills. If you want to be with a cool girl, you can't treat her the way your friend would because she won't stay. To get the different women like he does, you would have to single out insecure girls like he does. This is why he gets to go with models, they are notoriously insecure and easy to manipulate because they base their value system on their looks and how that's perceived. I know all this because I briefly dated a modeliser. 3
ThaWholigan Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 but he doesn't want the same things as you, you can't look to him for skills. He is after bedding lots of different women and what we have been telling you on this board - and hopefully finding out for yourself - is that for a relationship you need a completely different mindset and skills. If you want to be with a cool girl, you can't treat her the way your friend would because she won't stay. To get the different women like he does, you would have to single out insecure girls like he does. This is why he gets to go with models, they are notoriously insecure and easy to manipulate because they base their value system on their looks and how that's perceived. I know all this because I briefly dated a modeliser. Took the words out of my mouth. His skills won't help you in this regard. Besides, you already managed to get a relationship using the skills you already have. OK, so she was loopy, but you got one! All you have to do is hone in on those skills and develop them . 3
Taramere Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 You mean he hates a certain color? I'm not sure. It's possible I guess. He had a blonde gf once but she dyed her hair black. Yes, I think it sounds as though there's more of a personal issue at play here than just "I prefer brunettes". He's not my business contact per se. He has his own company and he does work on contract for my brothers company. But I met him in college and we were friends before that business rationship existed anyway. He's being disrespectful to both you and your partner. The very fact that you're reacting to this by asking "do I have bad taste in women?" gives a bit of an insight into why he might be disrespectful in this way. A confident man would not doubt his own taste in anything just because somebody else didn't share it. If you're not confident in your personal tastes or in the choices you make, somebody like this guy will zoom in on it and large himself up at your expense. Why does it matter what he thinks of her? He's not the one dating her, you are. Or were (sorry it doesn't seem to have worked out). I would say to him "Yes yes. We all know that your tall gorgeous girlfriends are actually beautiful drag queens who only date you because you let them do you from behind. So quit worrying about whether my dates are pretty enough, and just worry about where your next bottle of lube is coming from." 8
Emilia Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 "Yes yes. We all know that your tall gorgeous girlfriends are actually beautiful drag queens who only date you because you let them do you from behind. So quit worrying about whether my dates are pretty enough, and just worry about where your next bottle of lube is coming from." :eek:
Taramere Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 :eek: I know it's juvenile, but sometimes you just have to. 1
Emilia Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 I know it's juvenile, but sometimes you just have to. Oh yeah, preaching to the choir boy, most definitely. 1
Lipitor11 Posted July 5, 2014 Posted July 5, 2014 Damn! This post made me realized how important it is for me to look good all the time if I'm dating a guy, I can only imagine the **** that people are saying behind my back on days when I'm not fixed up!
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