Justaguy30 Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 I just met up with my ex after the last time she seemed to really miss me and was kissing on me and all that. Today was much different. She told me she would never be with me again which hurt but the truth was good I suppose, I would likely never truly want her back after all the bull **** she did. Anyhow it was strange because I didn't really look at her the way I used too. She looks really skinny and unhealthy like she is partying way too hard and not sleeping at all. It could be that she works non stop but I doubt she works as much as she let on. Point being I don't think I really like her anymore, I know much cooler women that actually want me in there lives. She just isn't the person that I imagine when I miss her. It still makes me mad that she won't just tell me she is dating someone which she obviously is. I suppose that is her right as a person but being dishonest is just hurtful. I do however still long for her sexually, is that normal? 1
Author Justaguy30 Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 Its pretty strange, its been almost 5 months and i find other women attractive but I don't especially want to screw them unless I have had a bit to drink lol
Author Justaguy30 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 Just a little update, while we were dating she was talking to this guy she worked with a lot. Said he was her friend blah blah, I knew better the entire time. Anyhow last we spoke I said just be honest with me and I will be fine with what ever it is. We have been friends for a long time and I would have liked to keep her as my friend. Anyhow last night I was with a friend dropping someone off and where did I see her car.... At his house. I am just angry today. After all I have given her and continue to give she just lies to my face and disrespects me. I even gave her some money because she is behind on rent. She is just a bad seed and she has polluted my mind and life for long enough. I need to figure out how to get over this completely so that I can move on and hopefully laugh about all of this someday. What feels really bad is this guy lives in a trailer park, has no car, cooks and a nursing home and doesn't even take care of his own daughter. She left me for an absolute loser. I suppose they are a match made in heaven though. Two low life losers that will live in a trailer park for the rest of their lives. Its just sad, I saw so much potential in her.
Simon Phoenix Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Wait, you gave your ex-girlfriend money because she was behind on her rent? I mean, that's about as weak-willed and spineless as it gets man.
Author Justaguy30 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 I didn't pay the last months rent at all because she was being a total bitch. She has two kids and I was trying to be nice. It made me feel good as a person. I will however never do it again.
Simon Phoenix Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 I didn't pay the last months rent at all because she was being a total bitch. She has two kids and I was trying to be nice. It made me feel good as a person. I will however never do it again. No wonder why she doesn't respect you dude. She cheats on you and treats you like crap and you bail her out? Please, never be that guy again. No one respects that guy. 1
Author Justaguy30 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 You can look at it that way if you want. I am a honorable person and I owed her the money. I am a good person and I will continue to be. She doesn't respect me because she doesn't respect anyone.
True Gent Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 (edited) You can look at it that way if you want. I am a honorable person and I owed her the money. I am a good person and I will continue to be. She doesn't respect me because she doesn't respect anyone. Although it's right what the others are saying about not giving in to your ex. I think what you did isn't so bad, you say you owed her the money. As I see it you paid her what you owed her because you have morals. It's too easy to get caught up in the 'I mustn't be weak' and 'I'm not giving them anything' mindset. In some cases that attitude is just spite. If you hadn't owed her any money I'd say you were a fool, but in this scenario you were the bigger person. I wouldn't give anything else though... I'd also suggest that you have nothing more to do with her, you can't be friends. Edited July 6, 2014 by True Gent
SuperGeek Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 (edited) Yeah you might want to stop talking to her completely and delete her info. She's not worth the time at all based on what I just read. So many other things in life that are worth spending time on other than some bitch who just wants to use you. Never, I repeat, never give her money again. If she calls you up and says she's going to be homeless if you don't help her out, tell her to pack a raincoat then hang up the phone. Do you think she would pay your rent if you needed help ? I'm sure the answer is no. Too many guys are still acting like it's 1970 and paying all this money out to women for absolutely no reason. Remember it's 2014 and equality of the genders is the hip new way of living now (half sarcastic). She can pay her own way..... SuperGeek Edited July 6, 2014 by SuperGeek
Simon Phoenix Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 You can look at it that way if you want. I am a honorable person and I owed her the money. I am a good person and I will continue to be. She doesn't respect me because she doesn't respect anyone. I fail to see how you "owed her money". It was never your obligation to pay her rent. Now, if you owed her money that she previously loaned you and she couldn't pay her rent without you paying her back that's something else entirely and you should pay that money back, but that's not exactly how you painted the situation.
Author Justaguy30 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 I lived with her Simon. I didn't pay the for the last month that I lived there.
Simon Phoenix Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 Yeah you might want to stop talking to her completely and delete her info. She's not worth the time at all based on what I just read. So many other things in life that are worth spending time on other than some bitch who just wants to use you. Never, I repeat, never give her money again. If she calls you up and says she's going to be homeless if you don't help her out, tell her to pack a raincoat then hang up the phone. Do you think she would pay your rent if you needed help ? I'm sure the answer is no. Too many guys are still acting like it's 1970 and paying all this money out to women for absolutely no reason. Remember it's 2014 and equality of the genders is the hip new way of living now (half sarcastic). She can pay her own way..... SuperGeek Yep, a woman that can't stand on her own two feet financially and depends on men to pay bills for them is not someone I'd be interested in.
Simon Phoenix Posted July 6, 2014 Posted July 6, 2014 I lived with her Simon. I didn't pay the for the last month that I lived there. Well, that's a bit different. But from this point, you need to lock down your wallet.
Author Justaguy30 Posted July 6, 2014 Author Posted July 6, 2014 She will never even hear from me again. She will come crying to me again and next time ill be a ghost. She means nothing to me, which is hard since I have known her for so many years even before we were together. I do not know how I never knew you was a huge cheating lying whore and a pathological liar. I hate her to my core and that will never change. 1
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