Leroy82 Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 (edited) I broke NC with a girl I shouldn't have two weeks ago. I joined Plenty of Fish and she was one of my matches, so I thought I would say a nice hello to her. I know never break no contact. I did and I feel like crap! Anyway, she responds with a strange message that said "she doesn’t want to hurt me, and I have been nothing but a gentleman to her but she’s having a hard time now so I can't talk to you". She explained one of her kids is very sick. So I responded back with concern for her daughter. Then the next day I ask can you tell me if she’s going to be okay or what’s going on. No response. So skip to today (two weeks later) I look on FB today (another no no) and she has new photos that were recently uploaded of her having fun. That’s something you don’t do when you have a very sick kid I would guess. Is it me but I find it F’ up someone would use their kid as an excuse not to talk to someone. In my first message all I said was “How is going, its been 7 months! It would be nice to hear from you and start a friendship” All she had to say is "Dude, I don’t think us contacting each other is a good idea". It would of hurt but at least I would of gotten honesty from her. I hate being lied to!! Or at least tell me how your child is doing!! I’m writing this because I want to vent. I hate being lied to and disrespected. I treated her like an Angel. I want to send her a hate text or email but thought I would do it here first. I was worried sick for her child. Edited July 2, 2014 by Leroy82
Tressugar Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Just move on. I hate to say it, but there's not too many quality people on POF. 1
mouse21 Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 She's not worth your time dude. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Vent if you need too (as we all do) and the let it go. Sorry it didn't work out.
Author Leroy82 Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 Thanks you two. That's why I am here. I don't want to say or do something I will regret. It just pisses me off. At this point I would like to know if her 6 year-old is okay. I spent time with the little girl. I try not to think of it...but its not easy.
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Cowards hide behind little children. They make good shields from the truth. The truth she was too cowardly to share with you.
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