Author Lonestar Posted February 19, 2005 Author Share Posted February 19, 2005 I'm in So Cal too. LOL 714-68*-10** figure those 3 digits out and I will see if I can work you into my schedule. There is a huge backlog for nice guys this time of year. I think it has to do with boyfriends that blew it somehow on Valentine's Day. I don't mind all the work I just wish they could spread it out more evenly over 12 months. Maybe do like 2 Valentine's Days. Have one in February and one in maybe August. Have the girls with last names starting A-L go in Feb and M-Z in August. Woah, then you could just start dating women right when the V-day corresponding to her last name has just passed and not have to worry about a gift for a while. I think i'm onto something here ?????? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 Originally posted by monkey00 Society is the cause for feminized men today, not to mention some men growing up without a proper "male father figure" or single mom, that they dont know how attraction works. They also dont understand that attraction isn't something logical, yet illogical. I totally agree with you above, MONKEY00. Men who don't have some masculinity inside them won't get too far with women. plus women can be blamed also cause they lead men on, yes those attention whores, just to stroke their ego and go higher on the pedestal. when in actuality they have no interest in the man whatsoever. Or they'll just dump them into the "friends zone" if they feel like it. this is exactly why i tell men not to be friends with women, ever. don't be friends after a break up, don't be friends with her cause she won't date you, etc.. I know women who are attractive that have a HUGE harem of male friends that they do shyt with but don't f***. when they have the rare fri or sat nite alone or their a**h*** b/f just dumped them, they call one of their "male buddies" who come running like a dog w/ thier tail wagging. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lonestar Posted February 19, 2005 Author Share Posted February 19, 2005 He comes to pick me up for our date last night after hounding me to hurry up. I open the door and he hands me more flowers. My initial reaction was annoyance b/c he just gave me flowers for V Day, but I caught myself and said thank you, put them in a vase and we left for out date. I had the "talk" with him on the way to dinner and again when we were driving back to our town. He was totally cool about it and very understanding, so I'm thinking maybe this could work out. He stopped falling at my feet and complimenting me so much to a point where I actually started to enjoy hanging out with him. Later in the night we ended up back in the club where he works, and he went to talk to some of his friends while I hung out with mine. The next thing I know it's the end of the night and he's totally drunk on his ass. I'm talking can't walk ready to puke drunk telling me he's gonna drive me home. I took his keys, drove him back to my place and gave him two options - I call him a cab or he sleeps on my couch until he's sober. No, he wants to walk home. Finally, I decide I'll drive him home and leave his car at my place. There was no way in hell I was gonna wake up to this crap. He gets out and falls on his ass right in front of my car. I laughed so hard. I get home and there's already a message waiting for me apologizing and saying he doesn't want to lose me over this. Then he calls me not once, but three times where I finally had to yell at him b/c I was trying to sleep, and it was 3:00 AM. I also found out through the course of the evening that he uses coke, when he told me he didn't anymore. The subject came up so many times and several people asked him to do lines. If I wanted a coke addict, I'd go back with my X. So now his car is parked in front of my place, and I do NOT feel like picking him up so he can get it. Nor do I feel like dealing with the apologetic desperate phone calls that are gonna start when he wakes up. Needless to say I will not be dating him again. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 Originally posted by Lonestar Needless to say I will not be dating him again. RUN, don't walk... Link to post Share on other sites
Sckott Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 Many problems just waiting to surface. My condolences, but now you know what was really wrong... Link to post Share on other sites
lost_in_chgo Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 So....you're available then? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lonestar Posted February 19, 2005 Author Share Posted February 19, 2005 So....you're available then? For you, Lost? Sure, I'm available. Let's go out on a date this weekend. Then we can come post here about each other. LOL Link to post Share on other sites
imokurnot Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 That post was in reply to HotCaliGirl's post. It did look kinda stupid where it was etc. I had a little too much to drink last night maybe lol. Link to post Share on other sites
HotCaliGirl Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 imokurnot wrote:I'm in So Cal too. LOL 714-68*-10** figure those 3 digits out and I will see if I can work you into my schedule. There is a huge backlog for nice guys this time of year. Well, I'm in Orange County too...but I don't have time to try all your digits! I'm also a UCLA grad, so if you want to save me some time, post those #!BUT - Valentine's Day is VERY important so no skimping on that...I like your idea for 2 of them/year - I'll get a 2nd last name that's A-L so we can celebrate each time, with gifts and all! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 20, 2005 Share Posted February 20, 2005 my phone is 1-800-EAT-SHYT Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lonestar Posted February 20, 2005 Author Share Posted February 20, 2005 my phone is 1-800-EAT-SHYT I just called you but some "nice" guy answered the phone, told me I was beautiful. You must have posted the wrong number, dude. Link to post Share on other sites
lost_in_chgo Posted February 20, 2005 Share Posted February 20, 2005 ahhh, you misdialed, that was me you just talked to Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 20, 2005 Share Posted February 20, 2005 Originally posted by Lonestar I just called you but some "nice" guy answered the phone, told me I was beautiful. You must have posted the wrong number, dude. Link to post Share on other sites
KaiaMahina Posted February 20, 2005 Share Posted February 20, 2005 Lonestar, while I'm sorry that your "nice guy" turned out to be a drug-addled oddball, I just can't tell you how happy I am that my perception that all this niceness was preceding some wicked nastiness just waiting to reveal itself! My God! I have learned something from all these wretched men I've been subjecting myself to! I'm also happy that he revealed the massive cracks in his cranium before you somehow succumbed to his "niceness" (because, after all, he was toning it down to such an extent that you were actually enjoying being around him). Hurrah! You only lost a couple of weeks. I only wish that I had visited my ex and found him wearing a diaper and nursing at his mother's poisoned tit to give me that in-your-face clue that he had major dysfunctional "mommy issues". Woulda saved me 18 months of my life which I will desperately wish to retrieve when it's time for me to take my place in a chilly drawer at the morgue. And I'm flattered no end that I appear in your sig line! I'm famous! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lonestar Posted February 20, 2005 Author Share Posted February 20, 2005 Yes, you were definitely right. This guy couldn't even hide his true personality for very long. Two weeks and three dates in, the real him surfaced. Funny how he called me twice yesterday telling me that what happened was so unlike him, that he doesn't use drugs, and he's never drinking again. I laughed at him, but tried to let him down easy. Sometimes people are so transparent if you follow the clues. As far as my sig line, you're going to keep in very interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 20, 2005 Share Posted February 20, 2005 Originally posted by Lonestar This guy couldn't even hide his true personality for very long. Two weeks and three dates in, the real him surfaced. he could not have been too swift cause I have partially hidden my true personality for years from people (acquaintances, lovers, bosses, etc...). My family and long time friends know the real me. That song by the Who comes to mind "can ya see the real me, can ya, can ya??" Sometimes people are so transparent if you follow the clues. very early on people will tell u most of what u need to know about themselves, you need to listen and observe and not miss the clues. then you need to act on info you get whether it be good or bad. This last part of taking action is where most screw up. Link to post Share on other sites
FoShizzleMyNizzle Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Nice guys act nice to cover their jerkness. I'm glad I read through the entire thread and on your date report to justify my conclusion. Oh yeah, please run from him. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Originally posted by FoShizzleMyNizzle Nice guys act nice to cover their jerkness. this is totally true FOSHIZZLEMYNIZZLE. and that's why women don't like them, cause they are dishonest to start with and women can see thru it. men who are honest and comfortable with their masculinity and admit they have faults and are not perfect tend to fare much better w/ women. Link to post Share on other sites
Coolhndluke Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 WOW! 1. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 2. YOU REALLY ARE BEAUTIFUL 3. HAVE I EVER TOLD YOU THAT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 4. HAVE I TOLD YOU THAT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 5. WHO AM I?? WHAT IS MY OWN ****ING IDENTITY? OH YEAH YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Link to post Share on other sites
Coolhndluke Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 ... 10 MINUTES LATER #99 HAVE TOLD YOU HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE?? #100 WANNA GET MARRIED JUST WAIT UNTIL AFTER YOU DO SLEEP WITH THIS GUY. HOPE HE DOESN'T OWN ANY SHARP OBJECTS. Link to post Share on other sites
CurvyGurl Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 That sux, Lone... but at least you found out early on. I prefer a nice guy but a real nice guy with an identity and a backbone who doesn't put me on a pedestal. I'll do him the favor of not putting him on one, either. Link to post Share on other sites
Coolhndluke Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL. YOUR SKIN IS AS SOFT AS A ROSE PETAL. YOU SMELL AS SWEET AS HONEYSUKLE. Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Okay Coolhndluke I think we get the point! It is annoying when all someone can do is compliment you on your physical appearance....if they "gush" over you and go overboard in their niceness...it is a HUGE TURN OFF! I agree it's a good thing you found out his true side BEFORE becoming seriously involved with him. Men like this creep me out! Link to post Share on other sites
Coolhndluke Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Originally posted by Barby Okay Coolhndluke I think we get the point! It is annoying when all someone can do is compliment you on your physical appearance....if they "gush" over you and go overboard in their niceness...it is a HUGE TURN OFF! I agree it's a good thing you found out his true side BEFORE becoming seriously involved with him. Men like this creep me out! HEY THERE - ALL OF THOSE BEAUTIFUL COMMENTS WERE DIRECTED AT HOT CALI GIRL!!!! JEALOUS LADIES?? Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Originally posted by Coolhndluke HEY THERE - ALL OF THOSE BEAUTIFUL COMMENTS WERE DIRECTED AT HOT CALI GIRL!!!! JEALOUS LADIES?? Jealous???? Jealous of what?????!?!?!?!?!?!? I thought you were being sarcastic because of this thread...her saying he was "too nice" I had no idea you were directing your comments to any "one" (next time use "private messages" to save misunderstandings). Link to post Share on other sites
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