atthebay Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 My best friend has **** faced me We initially started as good friends . we attend the same class. Then became close friends ! In a span of 2 months we became so thick friends ! All the while I thought of her as a best friend only . but looks like she had a huge crush on me ever since the first day . she acted like a best frien. I could not understand her possessiveness. Yet I trusted her as a best friend. All my friends said some thing is wrong with her and she sees you more than just a friend. We used to talk like we should be besties for ever . a relationship should not spoil our friend ship and **** . but I started liking another girl from my class. She was the prettiest of them all. My friend started hating her. She spoke so ill about her to me. Started blackmailing me and also distanced herself. This made me guilty. I didn't go any further with my crush. Yet I became very close with my crush . started spending more time with her. My friend felt ignored. She spread rumors and bad news about my crush behind my back. I did not agree to believe that my friend would have done it. I opposed the whole world and stood for her. I even fought with my crush . then she started ignoring me and we grew apart. She started spending time with her ex I discouraged it. She said I felt iunsecured about him. That broke my heart. After 2 weeks she proposed her love for me . I did not know what to say . I felt betrayed. Realised so many things about her. How she has back bitched about my crush who is my gf now. How she made so many sick things just to seperate me from my gf. Even then I considered her as my friend and said its ok . we are bestows and there can never be a better relationship than that. After that she got committed to her ex again in just 1 week . but never told me. All our friends seemed to know. But she never told me about it. I felt so insulted and **** faced. I asked her straight . she said she couldn't tell me. We fought and she did not care about our friendship anymore. i started missing her so bad so i gave up my prestige and went to talk with my self. Yet again she did not give me the respect as a friend . **** faced me and ridiculed me . but I still considered her as my close friend after a few weeks i could not bad the level of insult she gave me. I ended up telling her that she did not deserve my friendship. And i stopped talking with her all together. she did not give a damn about me not talking with her. i felt so hurted that she did not care about my friendship . I stopped talking with her. few weeks b4 she said she later released her mistake and she wants to become friends with me like the beginning. But i said i was not ready to talk with her infectious insulted me very badly. she sent all are mutual friends to convince me to talk with her but i did not give in. She ended up asking my best friends and forced them to make me talk with her. now for the past 2 weeks she has been sending me numerous texts of how sorry she was. but i was so hurt. I did not reply. Now what should I do ? She is pestering me through my close friends. I don't wanna pose as an freak attitude guy in my friends circle. The kinda attitude she gave me after getting back with her ex is still breaking my heart . What should I do ? She is begging me to talk. Do you think she realised her mistake ? Should I give her another chance ? I don't love her anymore . I am hurt very badly . Should I talk with her ? Pleas help. All your answers are value for me. Thank you
preraph Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 You can't keep a woman friend around if they are going to interfere with your dating other women. She is possessive of you. She probably went to her ex to try to make you jealous maybe or because she felt rejected. Either way, that's not healthy and makes you not trust her even as a friend. I think if you want to keep your girlfriend, you are going to have to block this old friend out because of how she has acted. Otherwise, your new girl will start getting tired of it now she's badmouthed her.
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