Hugo112211 Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Hello I am just curious if a girl can have feelings for you yet not want a relationship with you for any reason. Is this possible? Also, can a girl change her feelings for you after she rejected you? Like let's say you made a move on a girl just hanging out but she makes up excuses and she says she is not interested in you. Then after several months, she acts differently around you. More flirtatious and giving off several signs of interest. You even ask her to hangout and she agrees. It will be pleasant if both of these questions are answered. Thanks
Assasda Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Sure, a girl can like you and not want to be in a relationship with you. - I take it that youre already friendzoned And yes, a girl can change her mind and like you if she "rejected" you before. Most times girls dont even "reject" guys. They just dont want anything from that guy at that moment. - But later on they may way to have a relationship with that guy. example: Early in a date, the girl may not want to kiss you, but as she gets comfortable with you, later on in the date, she may kiss you. - You were not "rejected" the first time. She just wasn't ready.
Author Hugo112211 Posted July 2, 2014 Author Posted July 2, 2014 Sure, a girl can like you and not want to be in a relationship with you. - I take it that youre already friendzoned And yes, a girl can change her mind and like you if she "rejected" you before. Most times girls dont even "reject" guys. They just dont want anything from that guy at that moment. - But later on they may way to have a relationship with that guy. example: Early in a date, the girl may not want to kiss you, but as she gets comfortable with you, later on in the date, she may kiss you. - You were not "rejected" the first time. She just wasn't ready. Firstly, no I am not in the friendzone. Why would I be? In case you were wondering, I did not tell her about my feelings yet and have NOT asked her to go out with me. Also, she hasn't given me a SINGLE hint that I am just a friend. I was just curious if it is possible that a girl can be interested in you but not want or be ready for a relationship
PegNosePete Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Why are you asking "can a girl" in such a general case? Of course they can. There are 3 billion females in the world, I am sure some of them act in any way imaginable. Wouldn't it make more sense to explain your specific situation, to get some specialized advice on this one particular girl? 4
giblesp Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Why are you asking yourself this? She said no so move on. Have some pride with yourself; right now you're hanging in there just in case you get something. Do you think thats attractive to a girl? Is it attractive to you?
todreaminblue Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 it happens, as other posters have said she might not have been ready for a relationship at that time or she wasn't sure of your intentions towards her if it was just a fwb you were after ......she might not have known you well enough........whatever the case is you shouldn't go by the past but by her present actions and the way she is treating and responding to you now, if you still are interested in her, go out with her get to know her better and i wish you luck.....deb
d0nnivain Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 By your use of the world girl, I am assuming you & this girl are young. Young girls often don't know their own minds. As a teen while I may have had a crush on a boy, if he talked to me I was so shy & scared, I would shut down. I wasn't ready for a date, let alone a relationship. If you are talking about the same girl, she could have said no a while back, then warmed to the idea as she determined over time that you are trustworthy. If the ages of the people involved -- you & her -- are adults over 21, her feelings probably didn't change but she is intersted in a safe friendship.
GoreSP Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Firstly, no I am not in the friendzone. Why would I be? In case you were wondering, I did not tell her about my feelings yet and have NOT asked her to go out with me. Also, she hasn't given me a SINGLE hint that I am just a friend. I was just curious if it is possible that a girl can be interested in you but not want or be ready for a relationship Sooooooo how do you know she doesn't want a relationship with you? Take a chance. Ask her out. You will not die if she says no I promise.
Diezel Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 "I'm not in the Friendzone." "I haven't asked her out!" What? 1
somedude81 Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 I completely lost track of how many girls have told me that they liked me, but not in that way.
preraph Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 I don't know any girls who were not interested at all except as friends upon first meeting or two and then later miraculously became attracted -- and if they did it was usually because they were drunk or needy and being irresponsible and then they had no intention of doing it again. Not saying it can't happen. Sometimes someone becomes more attractive as we get used to them a bit and like them more. But I still think all that happens in the first few meetings -- not a year later.
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