nobodie Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 i know this guy from OLD , we have just started dating for about 2 -3 weeks and he claimed that we are in a committed and serious relationship now. Yesterday while texting him, he suddenly dropped this comment "I need to love for love" when I was advising him to losen up at work. Does that mean that he is still seeking for the one? the miss right? he feels that im not the one for him and he needs to continue to search for the one and only special true love? why would he blurt out such a comment randomly "i need to look for love", i asked if he is still seeking true love, he said nope, and i was the one for him.. im now skeptical about our relationship and wonder if hes using me as a time filler/temporary girlfriend while he continues on his quest for the special someone, the love of his life..
Smilecharmer Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 This makes no sense. What exactly did you say before he said he needed to look for love?
Assasda Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Why didnt you question him after? Its like youre just like "OK" I'll go mull over this riddle. Anyway, this whole thing sounds shady. If he just blurts out that stuff, he's probably emotionally unstable, and he's probabaly capable of lying to you and just straight up cheating on you. Anyone that tries to "lock you down" in just 2 to 3 weeks has a possessive agenda, and you should beware of them
d0nnivain Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Why are you having deep conversations via text? Those things need more context. Next time you are together in person ask what that comment meant.
Diezel Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Anyone have the English version of whatever the OP was trying to explain? I'm confused. 2
MidwestUSA Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 'He said I was the one for him'. You might have a stage five clinger on your hands. I don't think he's using you while he looks for others, I believe YOU'RE IT!! You asked, he answered. Believe him.
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