BriInWonderland Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 Three months and I still miss him. Still look forward to his messages. I know he won't come back but I miss him so much. I miss the closeness we shared I miss my family and friends and I'm so lonely. I've done tons of things to distract myself but when I wake up or I'm alone it all just comes back. Today I told my good friend "I miss him, there isn't anyone else I want next to me" for the millionth time. I know it's annoying but he told me "you're being unhealthy and I'm not talking about it anymore." I just need someone sincere and honest to talk to. I know I'm stupid I know I should "just get over it" I know he's not xon back" but I can't help but hold on. What's wrong with me?
bluelady Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 There's nothing wrong with you! I've never heard of someone being invested in another person and not getting hurt when they experience the loss. Of course you are sad, of course you are lonely. Don't expect to heal overnight. Anyone who expects this of you is being unreasonable. You have a right to grieve. People create bonds for a reason - they're not meant to dissolve instantly. You'll have to work at it, and it will be slow, but you can do it. Your friend might be annoyed because you are repeating yourself over and over on the same issue and they cannot sympathize. Try to find someone else to talk about it with or explain to your friend you are improving by grieving but it will take some time.
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