Georgia2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 I had a great first date with a guy. He said he would contact me tonight or tomorrow. Should I wait and let him contact me or should I contact him? On the date he kept on asking what I liked to do for fun, where did I like to go on vacation and he asked me other questions about me. I really like him. I originally contacted him on the dating site. There was no awkward moments and it was easy to talk to him. He hugged me when we first met and he hugged me after the lunch.
Mo_Do Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Give it at least 24 hours and yes, it is 100% ok for you to contact him.
allez102 Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Give it at least 24 hours and yes, it is 100% ok for you to contact him. This. It's OK to contact him but definitely wait 24 hours. The likelihood is that he will contact you in that timeframe anyways. 1
Author Georgia2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Author Posted July 1, 2014 Thanks everyone! I didn't want to seem to eager. I will wait until tomorrow afternoon to message him.
Gaeta Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Did you send him a thank you message after the date? This is a MUST if you like the guy. This is how you give him the green light. 2
Assasda Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Yeah, I hope you sent him a message saying thank you.
Author Georgia2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Author Posted July 1, 2014 Did you send him a thank you message after the date? This is a MUST if you like the guy. This is how you give him the green light. I wasn't sure if that was a good idea or not. I just sent him a message after reading I should do that. I wasn't sure if sending a thank you message and saying I had a nice time was sounding to eager.
preraph Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 I think all you should do is a quick thank you that he isn't obligated to answer and then see if he contacts you for another date. 1
BC1980 Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 I had a great first date with a guy. He said he would contact me tonight or tomorrow. Should I wait and let him contact me or should I contact him? On the date he kept on asking what I liked to do for fun, where did I like to go on vacation and he asked me other questions about me. I really like him. I originally contacted him on the dating site. There was no awkward moments and it was easy to talk to him. He hugged me when we first met and he hugged me after the lunch. He said he would contact you right? So let him. I assume you thanked him in person? If so, I'm going to disagree with the majority and say let him contact you. If he hasn't contacted you in a day or so, I wouldn't take that as a great sign since he said he would contact you.
kolleamm Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Definitely let him contact you, but later down the line feel free to initiate the contact first too, it's really a turn on for guys when they don't constantly have to do all the leg work.
Weezy1973 Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 In general, as long as it's not psycho over the top, there is pretty much no way being eager is going to make a guy who is into you all of a sudden like you less. It just doesn't happen. If he's into you, he's going to love that you're into him too. The only thing you might have to be careful about is if he actually isn't really into you, and knows that you're really into him, is he might use you for sex and then leave. If he's a jerk that is. 1
deathandtaxes Posted July 2, 2014 Posted July 2, 2014 No need to read your post, really, just the headline. YES!!!! Contact him immediately!!!!! This signals interest. I would ignore the wait 24 hours advice. That's game-playing bs of the highest order. If you're into him, get in touch! You'll find out soon enough if it's mutual.
Author Georgia2014 Posted July 3, 2014 Author Posted July 3, 2014 I did message him to thank him and told him I had a really nice time. It turns out he had a great time to. He said he really liked me. So I am hoping things will work out.
Gaeta Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 I did message him to thank him and told him I had a really nice time. It turns out he had a great time to. He said he really liked me. So I am hoping things will work out. Yay!! that's great news Remember, maybe men like pursuing but they need us to give them the green light to do so!
Elle1975 Posted July 3, 2014 Posted July 3, 2014 No need to read your post, really, just the headline. YES!!!! Contact him immediately!!!!! This signals interest. I would ignore the wait 24 hours advice. That's game-playing bs of the highest order. If you're into him, get in touch! You'll find out soon enough if it's mutual. He said he'd call.. read the post. She sent him a thank you note. No need to get splattered all over the guy when he said he would.. call.
deathandtaxes Posted July 4, 2014 Posted July 4, 2014 He said he'd call.. read the post. She sent him a thank you note. No need to get splattered all over the guy when he said he would.. call. Him calling or not doesn't mean OP shouldn't contact him imo. Nothing says OP can't contact. If OP thinks she should, she should!
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