love1336x Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 I feel like I am going through HELL and BACK to get over my ex. By not texting him, forcibly doing active stuff when all I want to do is cry in my bed. Crying secretly when I can not in front of my friends, And wanna know what my ex is doing? Banging another girl, and she's all posting it all over facebook, twitter, and telling everyone at the job. (we work together) Less than of week of our break up.... already moving on. It hurts. It makes me think all his I love yous, and everything else that was good, was a lied. It makes the break up even worse because I feel betrayed (i know I shouldn't) I am not banging another man and bragging so everyone can know, so he can know. It's like what the hell? Did i really mean anything to you? I know some people have different ways of moving on, but this feels so revengeful as if I hurt him... as if I deserved this. At least he could have kept it on the down low... vs telling the whole world how much of piece of nothing i was to him. This is because I CARED more... I LOVED more... Blah.
Bumpin in My Trunk Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 This is because I CARED more... I LOVED more... Blah. And I'm sure you proved it with many actions. That is what usually hurts the most, knowing that everything you did was for nothing. But its ok now if you think about it...ik he's at work and bragging about it but NC is always the best cure. I was in a LDR and she left him for some other guy who was also LDR. They met for 3 or 2 days. A day after she met him she decided to upload a picture of them on whatsapp, knowing I use whatsapp too. And then she had the nerve to text me. I suggest just playful flirting with guys away from him. Going out with friends, family, or just receiving attention from the opposite sex is a huge self esteem boost. Another tip...act like you don't care. Some years ago an ex of mine decided to take a break because she liked someone else (story of my life). I begged her and then kept low contact. At school we didn't talk or hangout but then she saw me actually enjoying my life without her and having a blast with friends. After she saw that, she contacted me. So the point is...even if you can't be happy, act like you are or you don't care. Eventually you won't
bikerboy730 Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 I know how you feel! i too am going thru the same thing right now! we were together for 3 amazing years. i love her so much! i am trying so hard to keep it together! having anxiety attacks, and breakdowns secretly. i dont want my kids or friends to see me hurting! everything i see or hear reminds me of her. this pain is so difficult to endure! 1
NC-Thomas Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 You cared, thats good, atleast you have feelings and emotions. My first ex broke up with me, the next two months I saw them kissing and cuddling every week. Since we both took dancing lessons and the same school. I didn't want to quick taking lessons, and so I had to see it all... Best way to go is NC. 1
Author love1336x Posted July 1, 2014 Author Posted July 1, 2014 If I didn't have so many bills I would quit. But, screw it. Ima stand my ground.
Justaguy30 Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 I don't know but what I do know is that the person that cares the least has the most power. If that person is power hungry go ahead and ditch them because they will ruin you.
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