tinterr Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 First of a few facts, we are both 60, unmarried, have been seeing each other for 2 plus years, don't live together but see a lot of each other and we love each other. We share a computer and the other day her e mail account was open and I looked at it, maybe I did the wrong thing. I have had a gut feeling that something was up. Well, a number of hot steamy e mails sort of like 50 shades of gray things was sent to one man. In fact he gets more e mail from her than what I get from her. I have no proof other than e mails between the two of them, I think they have meet as one did contain a meeting place. Have they had sex? I don't know. But the steamy e mails have me very upset. I told her from the start that I don't share, no matter what and she agreed . How do I confront her about this. I feel guilty about seeing them, the e mails. as trust has been broken. Should I wait and see or take the bull by the horns and ask or is there a more non direct approach?
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