random12345 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 I met a girl on a dating site a few weeks back and went on 3 dates with her. Coffee, visiting a national trust property and a food festival. I've never met a girl I've been this interested in. (I'm 26 and not had many relationships). We never kissed on the dates except for saying goodbye. Last date was 2 weeks back and the previous weekend her sister visited so she was busy. I've not heard anything from her for a week now. I've sent 3 messages since. The first was after she said she couldn't meet the previous Sunday, asking maybe Thursday night next? 2nd was mid week, asking are you ok? 3rd was yesterday mentioning that I'd run a half marathon and hope you are well (no question). Still no response. So my question is do I forget about messaging her again even if she never responds. Or should I send a message later this week saying " I'd really like to meet you again. I'm really interested in you and looking for a relationship."? Also since the beginning her average response to a text was about 2 days
carrie_o Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 I'm sorry but it sounds like she is not that into you. Don't message her again. If she wants to contact you, she will. 2
Diezel Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 You already sent 3 with no response... what do you think the 4th is going to do any differently? Please don't send that text you are planning to text, it's pretty pathetic at this point. You want a relationship with someone who can't even text you back when you are asking if she is okay? Yeah, onto the next one. 1
Author random12345 Posted June 30, 2014 Author Posted June 30, 2014 Thanks for the response - I understand how she might be coming across but she said from the start she would be busy the next few weeks as she is a teacher and it's exam season. I just wonder if she isn't responding because I never made a move or made clear that I want more than friends.
d0nnivain Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 I don't know why she stopped responding but the reality is that she has You have to let her go.
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Thanks for the response - I understand how she might be coming across but she said from the start she would be busy the next few weeks as she is a teacher and it's exam season. I just wonder if she isn't responding because I never made a move or made clear that I want more than friends. Sweetie, you're starting to romanticize things now. As a woman, even if I am insanely busy, if I'm interested in YOU, come hell or high water I'm going to find a way to keep in touch. Period. These days, our smart phones are an extension of ourselves. We can't seem to live without them so taking two days or more to respond means you're not a priority which translates to she's just not that into you I'm sorry to break it to you hun. Unfortunately that's the way it goes sometimes. You made several attempts to keep in contact now let it rest. The ball is in her court as far as I'm concerned. Chalk it up to experience and move on. Good luck! 2
Mo_Do Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 The only way to online date is to multi-date so you don't care when one goes sideways like you have here. I can almost bet SHE was multi-dating and one of the other dudes snatched her up. She should have the decency to tell you that she is seeing someone else though, that is what I'll do when I go exclusive with one of the seven girls I currently have on the go.
Assasda Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 The sad thing is that youre already putting her on the pedestal. Dude you are done. NO more needy messages Check out some other women
Diezel Posted July 1, 2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Thanks for the response - I understand how she might be coming across but she said from the start she would be busy the next few weeks as she is a teacher and it's exam season. I just wonder if she isn't responding because I never made a move or made clear that I want more than friends. First of all... she's too busy to send a 10 second text message? Come on buddy, you know better than that... And as The Rock would say: IT DOESN'T MATTER WHY SHE ISN'T RESPONDING. Even if you asked, you'll never know the true answer. She's not responding and that's all you need to know. Move on. 1
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