Georgia2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 (edited) Have you ever had a nasty breakup and your ex asked you back? For those who have had that happen what was the breakup like and how long was it before your ex asked you back and did you get back together with them? I am asking because I had a nasty breakup with my ex and I am scared he will want me to come back. I want nothing to do with him. So I'm just curious about everyone else's bad breakups and if there ex wanted them back and what did you do. Since we had a nasty breakup is there any reason for me to worry he might want me back? I don't want to go into details but we both handled the breakup wrong. Which is why it was so bad. Edited June 30, 2014 by Georgia2014
me85 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Ya, 6 months after he BU with me he begged for me back (though I should've made him beg harder. Actually, scratch that. I just shouldn't have given him another chance at all.) I foolishly agreed to work things out (haha ya right) but did not want to be official again yet. Less than a month later he changed his mind about me again and ended it for the same reason as before...to date someone else. Our RS was toxic and the BU was actually easier/better than the RS. We've remained in contact (except for 2 periods of NC that never lasted more than 3 weeks) since we BU a year ago up until recently. 6 days ago I told him I could not be "friends" and I haven't heard from him since.
d0nnivain Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 I suppose stranger things have happened but your fear is unlikely. Especially after a nasty break up most people stay away. If he does come back just send him on his way If he doesn't go away or makes you afraid, you may have legal recourse. For now, don't borrow trouble. Be happy he's gone.
me85 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 I suppose stranger things have happened but your fear is unlikely. Especially after a nasty break up most people stay away. If he does come back just send him on his way If he doesn't go away or makes you afraid, you may have legal recourse. For now, don't borrow trouble. Be happy he's gone. For the most part this is true. However, my ex ALWAYS comes back. I've blocked him. I've moved. The only thing I've never done is be extremely nasty towards him but if he keeps contacting me it will end up that way. Me being the dumpee, who thought I was going to marry my ex, did not want the break up...so I had a very hard time cutting my ex off even when he started sleeping with someone else. I finally drew the line when he tried to have both me and his new gf. I moved out of his back pocket. Can't believe I stayed there for so long.
sugarlove Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Well, don't jump ahead of yourself. You are worrying over something that may or may not happen. If he does contact you to get back together, ask him you need time to think and post it here. Most likely, we'll ask you to ignore him. It's draining when a relationship consists of endless breaking up and making up.
Author Georgia2014 Posted July 1, 2014 Author Posted July 1, 2014 Well, don't jump ahead of yourself. You are worrying over something that may or may not happen. If he does contact you to get back together, ask him you need time to think and post it here. Most likely, we'll ask you to ignore him. It's draining when a relationship consists of endless breaking up and making up. My mom put that idea in my head. She has been saying he will probably beg me to come back. She says his family and friends have him pumped up right now to hate me. She feels when he gets lonesome he will beg me to take him back. I have noticed he is still friends with my dad and mom on Facebook. I know he's not communicating with either of them.
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