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How to appropriate ask her to dinner?


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So there is this girl I would like to ask out at work. I know some people say don’t date coworkers, but I am only going to be there for 1 more month and we work in different departments so she is very easy to avoid. Anyways I have worked there for almost 2 months now and haven’t really said anything to her. When I first started working here she was a little playful to me when we say each other the little bit that we did, but after a while she doesn’t stopped. I assume it is because I did a horrible job at showing interest, I was kind of focused in learning the job at the time. I am a little shy, but not new to the whole dating thing. My past 2 relations, one last 9 months and the other 3 years, were both started in the women initiating.

 

 

 

I think my main problem now is that I have been quiet for so long and all of a sudden starting to talk to her might come off weird. What would be some good ways to handle this? I assume most of the responses might just be grow a pair and ask her to dinner, but something more constructive would be nice.

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If you haven't really interacted with her out of work, I'd start with a drink not dinner.

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You might want to bring breakfast for the office, and give her her breakfast separately.

 

Or tell her youre going to get some soda, and buy one for her.

Just be kind to her, and dont pretend she's not there and you might get back in her good graces

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