Scarlett_girl Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 ummm ok..so..a casual guy friend of mine..who also happens to be SMOKING hot asked me to hang out at his place yesterday..we landed up fooling around (oops my bad!) anyhoo I'm supposed to go over to his place again tonight but Im now i'm confused at to what we are exactly....he asked me after yesterday what we were doing and I said I had no freaking clue...he said he too had no idea....so I just assumed we were gonna fool around and then move on..but then friends came over and he was being all cuddly and touchy and hand holding with me..which is totally boyfriendish..though today in class he was cute and flirty but not excessively touchy...and thus I am utter;y confused and have NO idea how to find out were we stand..it also doesnt help that I have NO IDEA WHAT I WANT FROM this "relationship" I dunno if I want just to fool around with him..to date him..to be in a relationship with him..etc etc..
tattoomytoe Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 you just sound like a fun thing to be doing. i would suggest slowing it down, i.e. no more folling around, and see what his reaction is.
Author Scarlett_girl Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 so I went to his place thursday and we slept together..I'm not usually a big casual sex person btu with him I dunno..it was sooo easy to just do it..anyways..he left for a couple of days and said he would call me when he got back..should I try to broach what exactly this is??how do I do that?? what do I say?? HELP!
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