alexwood Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 so my ex who i have been talking to lately found out tonught that i have been sleeping with this girl she hates she called me over to her house after i dropped my fwb off and my ex punched me i texted my fwb and said wow she said what? i said ..yeah amy punched me my fwb texted back "..." then i explained it to her.... did i ruin stuff with my fwb?
Lernaean_Hydra Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 so my ex who i have been talking to lately found out tonught that i have been sleeping with this girl she hates she called me over to her house after i dropped my fwb off and my ex punched me i texted my fwb and said wow she said what? i said ..yeah amy punched me my fwb texted back "..." then i explained it to her.... did i ruin stuff with my fwb? Yeah, possibly. Unless she is a genuine "friends first fwb" in which you were long time friends with before sex ever came into play, no girl wants to hear about you having this kind of contact with your ex. I have so many questions. Why did you even share this with your fwb? I mean you've basically just told your fwb that your ex is so jealous of her and your relationship she got violent with you. I.e., she still has feelings for you. If I were her I'd be wary of even continuing to see you given that A) you still seeing your ex, B) she's violent and C) you clearly have not established boundaries between the two of you. Other pertinent questions include...Why were you with your ex anyway? It's over isn't it? Why did she think it was okay to physically assault you? Why did you even feel a need to tell your ex about your fwb? Not only is it none of her business but you KNOW she hates this girl. What was the point? Or were you trying to make her jealous?
ExpatInItaly Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Why did you feel the need to tell her about your ex? That wasn't the brightest move. How did you expect her to react? Anyway, yes. I'd say you more or less screwed this up. You need to learn to keep your relationship issues and FWB separate. What is your intention with both of these women? 2
Author alexwood Posted June 30, 2014 Author Posted June 30, 2014 My FWB knows my ex. They don't like each other so they know all about each other
Fondue Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Why did your ex punch you? Where did she punch you? Any visible markings? Why didn't you report it to the authorities first? That kind of behavior is unacceptable. If she's done this to you and it goes unpunished, think of how many other people she abused. Or how many more people she will hit? Not cool, dude. You gotta make sure to let her know this is unacceptable.
Diezel Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 She lost any respect she had for you. That's what it means. 2
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