v_gia Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Hi all! So I've been dating this guy for about a month now, we've gone on 7 dates, seeing each other twice a week. The first three dates I had an amazing time, I was really digging him. But the next few dates I was getting frustrated because it was feeling super platonic and he wasn't making any moves. When I asked about it I found out that he's never had a girlfriend and has never kissed a girl. By date 6 I had to finally ask for a kiss and had to teach him how to kiss. Right now he's not really doing it for me. I'm attracted to more assertive guys that are more touchy than he's been. Should I stick with him and hope that he becomes more confident and I'll be more attracted to him over time? Or should I break it off? I mean, he's new to intimacy, so I feel like I should give him a chance and that he'll only get better. But at the same time if I'm feeling unsure about the relationship, doesn't that mean that it's not working out on my end? I'm really inexperienced with dating so I'm not sure at what point I should end it. How many more dates should I go on before I break it off? Or do I keep dating until hesitance becomes decisiveness?
ExpatInItaly Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 How old are both of you? I personally would not want to be the one to teach a guy about relationships and intimacy, but at my age it would be a little ridiculous. If you're quite a lot younger, I could understand. You could explain to him what you are looking for and what you like, and give it some time. But you're not obligated to do so. If you're not feeling it, let him go so you can both find people who are more compatible for you.
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