aemm Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Hello, months ago I really liked this guy that I met through a friend. I thought we really clicked. I told him I was looking for something serious and he said he wanted that too. He would only invite me over and try to sleep with me. He then ended it by telling my friend I wouldn't sleep with him. We saw each other months later and he later told me he didn't recognize me. My friend of 13 years sticks for him and barely talks to me. The guy ignores me because he says I am too dramatic. I suffer from depression and I tried to apologize for my anxiety but he refuses to talk to me... Yet talks to my friend everyday. He said he wanted to be friends but he clearly doesn't care about me. I'm sick of getting my hopes up and falling for the wrong guy. It's so hard out there. How do you guys recover from heartache?
Assasda Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 You mentioned some things that let me believe you left out some important notes. Anyway, why after meeting someone for a month, would you tell someone that you want something serious. You dont even know that person yet. And that person does not know you. Bottom line is simple then... Dont get your hopes up
travelbug1996 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 you did the right thing. He was only gonna use you and you didn't need to apologize to him for anything. Just be patient. another guy will come along
travelbug1996 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 You mentioned some things that let me believe you left out some important notes. Anyway, why after meeting someone for a month, would you tell someone that you want something serious. You dont even know that person yet. And that person does not know you. Bottom line is simple then... Dont get your hopes up I don't see the wrong in saying what she's looking for . At that point he could properly date her and they can decide if they want THAT with each other. Just because I tell a guy I only do relationships doesn't mean I want one with him. People need to relax.
Author aemm Posted June 30, 2014 Author Posted June 30, 2014 He kept talking about sex and I told him I wouldn't have sex with him unless we were in a relationship. He said he was fine with it and then a month later he changed his mind.
Author aemm Posted June 30, 2014 Author Posted June 30, 2014 I don't see the wrong in saying what she's looking for . At that point he could properly date her and they can decide if they want THAT with each other. Just because I tell a guy I only do relationships doesn't mean I want one with him. People need to relax. Thank you. I am just up front with what I want.
travelbug1996 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 He kept talking about sex and I told him I wouldn't have sex with him unless we were in a relationship. He said he was fine with it and then a month later he changed his mind. During that month did he actually act like your boyfriend? Did he spend time with you doing things?
travelbug1996 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 if he kept talking about sex thats all he wanted. let him go find someone else. Men who want a relationship don;t talk about sex all the time.
Author aemm Posted June 30, 2014 Author Posted June 30, 2014 During that month did he actually act like your boyfriend? Did he spend time with you doing things? He would only invite me over. I told him that I wasn't happy and I wanted to date. He told me he would take me out and then never did .
travelbug1996 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Next time don't tell a man you want to date. If he doesn't ask you on a date stop communicating with him. Men dont understand words they understand NO contact.
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