cholee Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago it was our second time dating in the last year we dated both times less than six months. We broke up on mututal terms. Since the last time we broke up we didn't contact eachother for a few weeks but then we started to talk again and hang out like we did the first time we broke up. I didn't see the point this time in keeping in contact because I thought we were done, but a month ago my ex told me he sees us getting back together one day and that's why he can't let me go because the possibility still exsists. I had no idea he thought this, but I was happy and keeping in contact perhaps did make sense after all. Anyways recently he went away on a few vacations, camping and to Vegas and I have been busy so we had not seen eachother for over a month and in the meantime I was hanging out with another ex of mine Josh who I dated years ago and we hooked up one night (we didn't have sex) anyways my ex Brian and I promised we would let the other one know when we started hooking up with someone else. So we went for dinner last night telling me about his trips and stuff and after he started coming on to me and I felt guilt I felt like I needed to tell him so I did and he wouldn't kiss me, hes like I can't stop picturing you with your ex I can't kiss you now. He asked if I was drunk I said no, he said why would you do that when you knew you were going to hang out with me soon? I said I don't know I wasn't sure when I would see you next and I thought you would hook up with someone on your trips. I told him it didn't mean anything Josh doesn't like me and I don't like him, and I said I felt guilty after. Anyways after that we cut the night short and he dropped me off and said I know I don't have the right to be mad at you I can't get mad at you for this, just think before you do something like that again. I gave him a hug and he sped off. I feel like a piece of now.... but it's also not fair that he expects me to be faithful to him and only him when we aren't dating. I still really like him, I was trying to do the right thing by being honest but now im afraid i've pushed him away.
devilish innocent Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 So Brian and you promised that you'd tell each other when you started hooked up with other people. Was the agreement that you would let the other person know before anything happened or once something had happened? If you said you'd talk to him before something happened, then you betrayed the promise you made. Otherwise, you did nothing wrong.
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