Mondmellonw Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 Am I stupid? I saw my ex with a new girl yesterday. For those who don't know, he has had many gf's and dated many people since we broke up. He seemed happy with her, tough. And it hurt. Today I feel like an idiot. I thought I was better but I am not :/ I need to get over this and I don't know how, I am getting desperate.
LostConfused123 Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 I feel for you and everyone else that runs into their ex. Chances of that happening to me are highly unlikely and I thank God for it. I don't really have any words of wisdom but I'm sorry for your pain and wishing you all the best. ((hugs!)) 1
Author Mondmellonw Posted June 29, 2014 Author Posted June 29, 2014 I feel for you and everyone else that runs into their ex. Chances of that happening to me are highly unlikely and I thank God for it. I don't really have any words of wisdom but I'm sorry for your pain and wishing you all the best. ((hugs!)) Thank you. It really hurt... The stupid thing about it is that he has had many girls around him all his life, so this isn't new, it is just him... It shouldn't hurt me at this point but it still does.
LostConfused123 Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 Is there any way you could avoid seeing him altogether? I'm sorry if you mentioned your situation with him before. I don't remember. 1
Author Mondmellonw Posted June 29, 2014 Author Posted June 29, 2014 It is a little difficult since my town is little and he went to the same college than me. But before he started pursuing me I never seen him, so I hope this won't happen again. Oh, and the story is.... I think, he doesn't likes being on his own.
sugarlove Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 My ex is the same, he always tells me he doesn't like to be alone, he functions better with someone there. So I won't be surprised if he found someone by now. If anything, focus on yourself. It probably hurt because it's a bruise to your ego, what does this new girl have that you don't have.. etc etc. The bruise hurts. REmind yourself it's just your pride and ego that he had found someone faster than you, move on faster than you did. So.... instead of feeling sorry for yourself, stand up! Stand upright and focus on your own happiness! Try to move on! Take steps! And one day, you will find someone even better than this guy and yes, flaunt him too!
irresolute Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Please, avoid that guy. Think of him as if he is a cancer. why you keep checking what's up with his life? You should be no contact.
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