Dsrmt Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 So I apologize, but this is kind of a long complicated story. So I was engaged for the past few years, and we were in an open relationship. There was a girl that I was seeing on the side, and unfortunately I started developing strong feelings for her. To compensate I tried to encourage her to date as well so I didn't feel like I was holding her back or anything. Anyway, my engagement fell apart, I realized I didn't love her (I still feel like a bit of a douche over that, because she did love me) and around the same time Tara (the girl I developed feelings for) met someone. They had been dating for a week when I decided to tell her how I felt (again,I feel like a douche, but I also felt like I had to) At first, Tara said she wanted to see how things went with the new guy, and I did back down and said I would still be her friend. The next day she said she couldn't date him because she couldn't stop thinking about me. So she said she would break off with him. Her and I hung out for about a week, but I occasionally felt like I had to walk on eggshells around her because she would suddenly become distant. Then she said she couldn't date for a while because she was "broken" and didn't know what she wanted. So I have been getting yo-yo'd for a couple weeks, she would want me around, then change her mind, and I've not known what was going on. I finally got her to open up the other day, and she admitted that she felt resentful for me making her feel like the other girl while I was engaged. So basically, my question is, should I keep trying to fix this, or is it time to walk away?
Author Dsrmt Posted June 29, 2014 Author Posted June 29, 2014 Sorry, little add-on She has told me that I'm the only one who has "scratched the itch" in a very long time. So part of me is worried that she might only really want the sex
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