ajg520 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 (edited) Months ago we talked every day/night about many things, I actually looked forward hearing from her. Then it turned out she had a bf, but she considered herself single. For awhile, she began to like every thing I posted on fb and twitter, mostly everything. We talked, hung out once, then after that she started flaking out but it slowly began to die off, and all of sudden stopped talking. Friends (guys and girls) dislike her because of her way of toying with me. All of sudden, I recieve a text from her that she's been out of town, gotten my msgs (1msg I completely forgot about) and wants to hang out. I had no idea who it was since her number resembles to other friends of mine. I responded with mostly one word txts, probably shouldn't have. Even mentioned my surprise to hear from after she told who it was, and didn't fill her in anything i've been up to. Friends tell me I shouldn't give her the time of day, but I kinda want to. Bare in mind, she hasn't replied since my last txt. I figured I was her for the moment. I guess here goes for another 3 months. Edited June 28, 2014 by ajg520
travelbug1996 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 does she still have a bf?? if so, respect that and yourself. she just needs an ego stroke and figured she could count on you.
Assasda Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I personally wouldnt go out with a girl like that seriously, because she doesnt respect you. But why not have fun with her? If she ever text you again. Tell her that you want to go out, that same night. Then get busy 2
JungleLover Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I personally wouldnt go out with a girl like that seriously, because she doesnt respect you. But why not have fun with her? If she ever text you again. Tell her that you want to go out, that same night. Then get busy Exactly. Listen, this girl is not going to be crying because you are ignoring her texts. Why not try to have her crying over the great sex you will give her tonight?
deathandtaxes Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 It seems that she just wasn't that interested in you after the first time you two hung out. Thus the flaking. But now? Like somebody else said, validation. Now that you have an inkling of what she's angling for, why not hang out again? Just do it on your own terms. Have no expectations. However, you are completely in the right to just plain ignore anything she does or says.
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