djcos25 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I started talking to this woman from Tinder recently. She's 31, a teacher, has a kid. I'm 28. I got her number after asking and have been texting on and off the past week and a half or so. She's fairly quick to respond to my texts. We had plans to meet up last night. On Thursday I texted her, we texted briefly, and just asked if we were still on for Friday night. She said "Yes! I'm heading to bed now but I'll text you tomorrow afternoon and we can meet up." Friday came. Then Friday afternoon. Then Friday night. Nothing. I didn't text her because she said she would text me. It's now Saturday about 1pm. My question is did I do the right thing and not text her, and should I text her today and see whats up or just let it go? I'm not going to text her, but just would like some other opinions. I just think its pointless to talk to someone for over a week only to just phase out like that. Its just getting old, I keep running into women who will pull the 'no text-back' routine after a while. Not only that, one of my friends wanted to hang out. I did go out with him, but what am I supposed to do, stay home because I have potential plans? Its just rude, I do have a life too.
Dallers Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Online Dating should be taken with a pinch of salt. Never put your eggs in one basket. Catch the fish, then release it and go back to fishing again. You eventually, catch a beauty.
me85 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 (edited) Ya, that is really rude. Sorry that happened to you, man. Don't let it get ya down though. I for one haven't "stood anybody up" on Tinder. Guys have asked to meet up and the ones I'm kinda undecided on I just tell them "Can't tonight, another time." or something. I would never make plans then stand someone up. I'd at least message them and let them know I couldn't make it because something came up...or whatever. I've only met up with one guy from Tinder so far. He's only passing through my hometown for work (which is perfect because I'm not looking for anything serious AT ALL-unless I miraculously meet "the one".) He leaves in a couple of days. We do have a lot in common but as everyone knows that doesn't matter much. There is no chemistry. We've been hanging out for about a month. He doesn't bring up conversation about us dating or being serious about dating in general which is a HUGE relief for me! lol I look forward to meeting more guys from Tinder. It really is a great way to find single people in your area. Edited June 28, 2014 by me85
Elle1975 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I started talking to this woman from Tinder recently. She's 31, a teacher, has a kid. I'm 28. I got her number after asking and have been texting on and off the past week and a half or so. She's fairly quick to respond to my texts. We had plans to meet up last night. On Thursday I texted her, we texted briefly, and just asked if we were still on for Friday night. She said "Yes! I'm heading to bed now but I'll text you tomorrow afternoon and we can meet up." Friday came. Then Friday afternoon. Then Friday night. Nothing. I didn't text her because she said she would text me. It's now Saturday about 1pm. My question is did I do the right thing and not text her, and should I text her today and see whats up or just let it go? I'm not going to text her, but just would like some other opinions. I just think its pointless to talk to someone for over a week only to just phase out like that. Its just getting old, I keep running into women who will pull the 'no text-back' routine after a while. Not only that, one of my friends wanted to hang out. I did go out with him, but what am I supposed to do, stay home because I have potential plans? Its just rude, I do have a life too. Rude.. probably should have called her out on it Friday night. Scratch her number off your phone.
Potz4prez Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Your first mistake was talking to her all week. Your second was caring. 1
Author djcos25 Posted June 28, 2014 Author Posted June 28, 2014 (edited) Your first mistake was talking to her all week. Your second was caring. What am I supposed to do, not text her and wait until the day of and say "oh hey its so and so, are we still on?" Who said I cared too? All I said was it was rude, because I have a life. Everyone else seems to agree. I just wanted to know if everyone was in the same boat as I was, by not wanting to text her again. I just expect it at this point. That way when it does happen, its whatever. @Elle1975 - already done. Deleted her number last night before going to bed. Also, Rhode Island? Where abouts? I live in Johnston haha. Edited June 28, 2014 by djcos25
Assasda Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Naa man, its a loss. I tell you why she chickened out too. Because she's nervous - crap like that. Some women illogical things at times, but its a good way to weed them out. You dont wanna go with someone like that. So get back on that app and start talking to some chicks
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