roe007 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 After a long discussion my ex said that her family don't like my parents but they like me and she also said something my mom did for my dad and she lost her job because of that. But reality is my mom resigned when my dad met with an accident this is year ago when I was one year old. So she is saying now that her family thinks my mom lost her job because she helped my dad get a loan and since he couldn't repay it on time she lost the job. She said she trust me but not my family but I said its my time now I am working and she is going to be with me not my parents. She again kept on saying she can't leave her parents and come with me. I said well convincing her parents is my job. If I am settled and make them understand I can look after her its a try and I insisted its a try and I don't want to take her away from her parents. If nothing works out I won't force her and it is her decision. But this was just a 6 month relationship we never really talked about settling down that fast. I thought we could marry like 4 years from now and by then I would be financially better and in a position to ask her parents. We discussed these things but now she says the same thing again and again. Its not me it is my parents but I don't know what to do I feel so bad and cursing myself. She said I lost her because of my parents. But these things happened when I was one year old how am I supposed to stop it from happening? She is a distant relative of mine from my father's side. So her family do know my family for a lot of years. But we never had any issues with them that I know of. We hardly met for years until we started our relationship. I am so confused to the extend I am afraid I will loose my sense. Do anybody have any advice for me? I am dying of pain here.
StrongLass Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 Sounds like she's either 1. Using that as an excuse to end things or rush marriage(less likely) 2. Afraid/unwilling to go against her parents' wishes in any way Both are unacceptable, so I'd cut my losses if I were you.
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