Saxonhook Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Firstly just want to say thanks for all the advice in the past, the people on here have been great with advice. Right I'm now 7 months down the line after me and my fiancée broke up and the problem is I have now dated 2 very nice girls and still end up in the same situation that I miss ms ex still. I have no way of doing NC as we have 2 children together and I have to drop them off 3 times a week. The confused part now comes that whenever we are together it feels like when we were happy together, even to the point my ex txts and says how nice it has been. I am just so confused as one min it seems like she wants us back together the next she says just think of the bad times of which there wasn't that many. We are both seeing other people now but both of us seem unhappy regularly, I feel terrible as the girl I am currently dating is lovely however I still keep thinking of my ex. Then on the other hand my ex after a couple of days of very basic txts about our children will then txt asking how I am and moaning about her new partner who seems to have very little respect for her. I am unsure what to do as I feel terrible for my new partner as I really like her but my heart belongs to someone else
StrongLass Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 First off, cut back contact with your ex to talk ONLY relating to your children since she's willing to use you as an emotional tampon but not willing to commit to you. Second, stop using that 'lovely girl' as a rebound while you're still so emotionally f*cked up & focus on improving/enriching other aspects of your life to grow yourself as a person. This will make you a more attractive and ACTUALLY-READY-TO-DATE partner for another 'lovely girl' later down the line when you've gotten past this pain. 1
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