kansara Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 Hi everybody! I really need some advice! I am madly in love with this guy,I know him since childhood and I've always had a huge crush for him , but nothing really happened.We are still living in the same neighbourhood, not so close like before, but still... and from the last 5 years we are crossing our roads quite too often, but unfortunately, I am in my car and I'm just passing by him. Since the last june, when I "broked the ice" and I found a reason to talk to him, we start getting a little bit closer and at least we now say "hello!" Even before we used to look into eachother eyes very specialy each time we passing by. In the beggining I was just enjoying seeing him so often, but slowly slowly I realise I want more.I've heard he is alone, but I don't know for sure. Myself I am getting soon the divorce by my actual husband. The big problem is he knows I am still married ( he don't know how "happy"... I am ) and with two children! My instinct tells me he likes me too, but isn’t doing anything about it and I don't know if he would like to get involve with me! I think I make it clear that I like him back… I don't know what to do! I am getting mad! On the one hand I want first to be free, at least my husband to move away, but still I don't know if is good to make myself the first step. I mean what he will thing I am married with two kids and I am doing this thing to him, plus in the worse case he can be still a married man! On the other hand I want something to happen soon, very soon! What can I do? If is a whole week I can't see him at all I'am getting crazy and other times is enough to see him for few seconds and he makes my day! I've even tryied to walk instead of driving, but we don't have some exact time when we meet! Even so what can I tell him first? How can I start talking to him without being too direct, but in the same time to make him understand my feelings for him. What should I do to make him actually make a move? Please tell me ... I welcome as many advices!!! Thank you!
westernxer Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Get divorced first. Then worry about the other stuff.
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