John316C Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 (edited) I read an article. It said almost every girl will tell a guy to "**** off" if he doesn't have confidence, despite how good he looks. So lets say you look like the hottest male supermodel. David Gandy for instance. They said unless a man is confident and arousing he'll get turned down. Nothing was said about morals btw. When a woman looks in your eyes and catches a glimpse of unsurity, I think a lot of women will reject him immediately especially if he is a stranger and pauses. Am I right or am I wrong? Edited June 28, 2014 by John316C
you_can_not_see_me Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I read an article. It said almost every girl will tell a guy to "**** off" if he doesn't have confidence, despite how good he looks. So lets say you look like the hottest male supermodel. David Gandy for instance. They said unless a man is confident and arousing he'll get turned down. Nothing was said about morals btw. When a woman looks in your eyes and catches a glimpse of unsurity, I think a lot of women will reject him immediately especially if he is a stranger and pauses. Am I right or am I wrong? I m not sure I buy this, sure confidence helps, but if a guy is really good looking the girl won't care as much. think about it guys are willing to go out with girls who are crazy if the girl is hot enough, why not a girl go out with a guy who is not confident, if anything the girl will probably think she can make him more confident by going out with him.
Author John316C Posted June 28, 2014 Author Posted June 28, 2014 (edited) That article is totally wrong. Looks matter more than confidence. ddddddddddddddddddddddddd Edited June 28, 2014 by John316C
Assasda Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 That article is totally wrong. Looks matter more than confidence. ^Yeah, you know nothing kid. There are techniques to seem really confident. The same techniques that people use for public speaking, and actually the same techniques that politicians use. Fake it till you make it man. Once you become good enough, it can be like second nature
Author John316C Posted June 28, 2014 Author Posted June 28, 2014 (edited) ^Yeah, you know nothing kid. There are techniques to seem really confident. The same techniques that people use for public speaking, and actually the same techniques that politicians use. Fake it till you make it man. Once you become good enough, it can be like second nature tell me something... do you think morality matters? i mean one reason thats keeping me from being confident is if they dont accept me when im weak and only when im strong what happens when im weak. they'll just leave. because they dont really care! does this make any sense. im having trouble overcoming this. if she doesnt really care then does it matter if i really care about her? i mean then she doesnt really care about me and i dont really care about her. is this just about superficial stuff like sex and fake love. playing the part just playing the part?????????? playing the relationship part but knowing that the person doesnt really care about you and just wants a prize. what if you marry someone and we all just play the superficial part (like a play) and we feel "happy" but we know deep down inside that that person if you needed help would abandon you???? Edited June 28, 2014 by John316C
FrostBlaze Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 You have trust/insecurity issues, turn-off. All the worries you mention shouldn't really be there. Yes confidence matters a heck ton, even if you aren't the most pretty of guys, being confident helps, not necesarally cocky. I don't consider myself "handsome" yet i have np attracting female companionship. Just don't act afraid like they are going to eat you, talk to them is all you need to do, they are human after all so don't get nervous arround them just becuase they are women. In the long run and even at first glance confidence matters, if they get to know you and you aren't all that handsome they will still like you if you are confident. But at first glance i guess good looks wins, you can bed a woman quicker if you're hot before she get's to meet your insecurities.
you_can_not_see_me Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 confidence only matters cause the lack of it is likely to make the situation uncomfortable for the girl, while if a guy is confident things play out more smoothly. Whether or not the girl finds you attractive still depends largely on how much the girl likes your appearance.
Assasda Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 tell me something... do you think morality matters? i mean one reason thats keeping me from being confident is if they dont accept me when im weak and only when im strong what happens when im weak. they'll just leave. because they dont really care! does this make any sense. im having trouble overcoming this. if she doesnt really care then does it matter if i really care about her? i mean then she doesnt really care about me and i dont really care about her. is this just about superficial stuff like sex and fake love. playing the part just playing the part?????????? playing the relationship part but knowing that the person doesnt really care about you and just wants a prize. what if you marry someone and we all just play the superficial part (like a play) and we feel "happy" but we know deep down inside that that person if you needed help would abandon you???? I dont understand. When are you going to be weak? - If youre going to cry when youre grandfather dies... we're all that way. - If you get sad because of a battered animal, thats not weak. Its not about superficial stuff, its about knowing someone that is wonderful, and knowing that someone cares about YOU. You are not playing any games. Its totally real. ---Again, what is "weak" to you?
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