kolleamm Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I know this cute cashier that I have a good feeling she likes me since she gets very nervous and shy around me. Anyways the next time I see her at checkout I'm going to give her this note-- (My number) Call or text me! I saw you here a couple of times and thought you were cute. I figured this would be the easiest way to get in contact with you without getting you in trouble at work. You also look familiar to me, like a girl I've seen at my college. (My name) Ok how would you react to that? Please feel free to edit anything I don't mind. Thanks in advance.
Keenly Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Give her your number on paper. Say the rest out loud. 2
Elle1975 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I know this cute cashier that I have a good feeling she likes me since she gets very nervous and shy around me. Anyways the next time I see her at checkout I'm going to give her this note-- (My number) Call or text me! I saw you here a couple of times and thought you were cute. I figured this would be the easiest way to get in contact with you without getting you in trouble at work. You also look familiar to me, like a girl I've seen at my college. (My name) Ok how would you react to that? Please feel free to edit anything I don't mind. Thanks in advance. I would skip the lengthy note. Tell her that you'd like to take her on a date, give your number or better yet, ask for hers.
haribogumsnickers Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Give her your number on paper. Say the rest out loud. What he said. Short and simple and say the rest. I'm guessing this chick works at Target. All the milfs shop early at Tar-jay too. I noticed this today when I picked up some tp.
travelbug1996 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 If a guy gave me his number I wouldn't call him. Grow a pair and ask her for her number. Call her and ask her out. Be sure to try for a kiss. 3
Author kolleamm Posted June 28, 2014 Author Posted June 28, 2014 I guess I'll just ask her for her number in that case. Im just hoping it doesn't get awkward. 1
Keenly Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 If a guy gave me his number I wouldn't call him. Grow a pair and ask her for her number. Call her and ask her out. Be sure to try for a kiss. Well then you'd be missing out for a really stupid reason.
Author kolleamm Posted June 28, 2014 Author Posted June 28, 2014 Also she works at Subway. So how exactly would you guys say it?
TheyCallMeOx Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I'd walk in at a slow time during the day. If she's busy with a line of customers, I'd sit at a table for a second, or stand around looking at the menu until the line dies down for a mere 30 seconds or so. If she's interested in you, you wanna be able to give her some time to write down her number or give you it. If she's busy, she may be less inclined to give you the number at that moment in time. If things are good to go, I'd walk up to her and be like "hey, I've seen you a couple times at this Subway and I'm just gonna go ahead and say it...I'd be very interested in taking you out to blah blah blah sometime. Would you be interested in doing something like that with me sometime?" Something short and sweet. Don't memorize what you're going to say because you're gonna screw up and you're going to screw up. Act natural. Get in, and get out. Don't buy some complicated sandwich, also because you don't wanna be all "wanna go on a date? And I'll have a white bread, everything on it, toast that sum' bitch, and add 2 cookies in there. You know what? I'm splurging. Make that 5, because you got some good ass cookies." 1
travelbug1996 Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Well then you'd be missing out for a really stupid reason. I'm a woman trust that I know what women want. Don't listen to this guy. He doesn't have a clue. Women like assertive men not passive pussies. Confidence turns a woman on like nothing else. 2
Keenly Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 (edited) I'm a woman trust that I know what women want. Don't listen to this guy. He doesn't have a clue. Women like assertive men not passive pussies. Confidence turns a woman on like nothing else. And something ridiculous like "I wouldn't date a man that gave me his number" turns a man off like nothing else. If you'd complain about that, what other trivial things would you complain about in a relationship. I'm glad that you seem to know what all women want, since most of the time women don't even know what women want. Write a book, you'll make a lot of money. Edited June 28, 2014 by Keenly 3
Author kolleamm Posted June 28, 2014 Author Posted June 28, 2014 TheyCallMeOX well said! I'm going to do exactly what you said in a few days. I hope it goes well. Thanks a lot!
TheyCallMeOx Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 TheyCallMeOX well said! I'm going to do exactly what you said in a few days. I hope it goes well. Thanks a lot! No problem. Make sure that if you are going to make any purchases, make the purchase FIRST and then ask her out. It's really important that you ask her out after, or else there's gonna be a lot of awkwardness which may or may not be weird for some women. I would recommend you buy something small...like two cookies, or a bag of chips, or something along those lines. After you pay for your stuff, that's when you introduce asking her out. If it were me, I would purchase my stuff and be like "hey, I know this may seem kind of weird, and I apologize in advance, but would you be interested in going out some time?" I think it's always good to walk out of the store right after she gives you the number because getting a woman's number is an awesome feeling, but celebrating too early can make it kind of awkward for the both of you. Once you get her number, the ideal thing to do is say "thanks. I'll give you a call soon, and hope we can set something up." And then leave. Bam. Exit like a boss. Throw that door open till it breaks the windows. Rip your shirt off because you can bet that she's going to be looking at you while you exit. Give her that confidence, but make your confidence sort of a tease. It'll make her want more and she'll be so eager to go on a date with you that it won't matter what you and her will do...she'll have a good time, regardless. Make her horny for a relationship.
Assasda Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 I agree with the poster that says to Say everything out loud and give her your number on paper, But if she seems really receptive to you, ask for her number as well. If she's even more receptive than you'd ever believe, set up a date right there. Handing everything on the note seems a little schoolboyish
Lernaean_Hydra Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 As someone who works as a cashier 40% of the time and gets hit on, Id say go for it! Nothing more frustrating than a cute customer you've interacted with now and then who refuses to take the final step! 1
Author kolleamm Posted June 28, 2014 Author Posted June 28, 2014 Wow awesome support here guys, especially from you TheyCallMeOX. I'm going to do exactly as you guys have said and forget the note and just flat out ask her out and for her number. I will do this this upcoming Thursday, and tell you guys how it went. Thanks again.
Author kolleamm Posted June 30, 2014 Author Posted June 30, 2014 So I finally went through with it today. I mentioned how hot it is and one thing led to a another and we started talking. She noticed my skateboard and says how she also skateboards too. I used this as the perfect opportunity to ask her if she wanted to skateboard together sometime and she agreed. Now here I need some opinions. She hands me a piece of paper and requests my phone number. She says she has a phone but she's not very good with numbers and might be unsure what her own number is so she requests mine instead. I give her my phone number, we introduce our names and I say goodbye. Is her requesting my number a bad thing? Perhaps she just doesn't want me to forget, or call her at the wrong time? Thanks in advance.
you_can_not_see_me Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 So I finally went through with it today. I mentioned how hot it is and one thing led to a another and we started talking. She noticed my skateboard and says how she also skateboards too. I used this as the perfect opportunity to ask her if she wanted to skateboard together sometime and she agreed. Now here I need some opinions. She hands me a piece of paper and requests my phone number. She says she has a phone but she's not very good with numbers and might be unsure what her own number is so she requests mine instead. I give her my phone number, we introduce our names and I say goodbye. Is her requesting my number a bad thing? Perhaps she just doesn't want me to forget, or call her at the wrong time? Thanks in advance. The bold part is a bit iffy but, hey its better than nothing. Now I guess you just have to busy yourself with other things, maybe she will call you, maybe she won't.
gaius Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Women don't want your number, unless she's a butch lesbian and you're a pretty girl. A lot of times cashiers will take their breaks outside. If I were you I'd bring it up in conversation, get her to say where she takes hers, and if it's outside stalk the spot one day you know she's working. Then pretend you just got there and go talk to her, ask for her number when you have some privacy.
travelbug1996 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 See this is not a good sign. when you get her number you have some control over the situation. But now you have to wait like a girl for her to call you. She doesn't know her own number? She's not interested. Let it go 2
Author kolleamm Posted June 30, 2014 Author Posted June 30, 2014 I guess the only way to really know is to wait, but how long would it be safe to wait before giving up? I figure if she doesn't call me by the end of tomorrow the chances practically zero. No regrets honestly, this was the first cashier I ever asked out and every experience teaches me something new. It was actually easier than I had thought. 1
travelbug1996 Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 attaboy, don't sweat it. Dating is sometimes a numbers game. the more you put yourself out there the more likely you'll get a favorable response. Do not get discouraged. possible rejection is a part of life that we have to have courage to face.
LoveBohemian Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 To be honest her asking for your number isn't a great sign but you never know, she might get in touch but as travelbug says don't sweat over it. You should definitely be proud of yourself for having the courage to ask though, it takes balls to do it and now you know you can do it again. This thread has inspired me to ask out this girl who serves me my lunch at the local market stall. She's very cute and friendly so I'm going to take the plunge!
TheyCallMeOx Posted June 30, 2014 Posted June 30, 2014 Asking a woman out is very simple to do when you let go of the worry of being rejected. I wouldn't necessarily jump to conclusions just yet, but I also wouldn't cling to your cell phone in hopes that she'll call you in the next five minutes. I would give it about 2-3 days, and I wouldn't hang around the place like a stalker and wait for her to go on break, either. Just be proud of yourself that you asked a woman out, and remember what was holding you back the next time you ask a woman out...and it won't be as hard.
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