spinal168 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 When someone loves you but still have to break up with you because they felt betrayed and have to break up with you and saying that they regret ever knowing you, is it really over? Me and my girlfriend work together and no one in our company knows about our relationship even if they are our friends and only our non-mutual friends know about our relationship. This monday my girlfriend found out I was still smoking even though I told her I quit repeatedly. So she got really mad at me and said she was really upset and that we were over through text. So at night after work, I went over to her house and rang her apartment but she didnt budge so I called her like 2 times and she didn't pick up. So the next day after work I waited outside her apartment before she got home and finally got to see her face to face and talk about it. She was really angry and said that she won't ever trust me again and said we were over no matter how much i pleaded it didnt work. So I left her apartment feeling really down and wanted to vent with someone. I called a couple of friends but they werent picking up so I called a very good friend of hers to come out to talk even though I regretted it after because I was just so eager to have someone to talk about and want someone to vent to. About this friend, he liked my gf for the past 2 yrs and they are very good friends. But he doesnt know about our relationship at all and I told him about us hoping he wouldn't say anything. So all was well and I continued to go to work the next day. The next day at night I sent her a very touching text and didnt care if she responded or not. Jump to next day my girlfriend out of the blue told me she wanted to meet and talk after work. So i met her at a empty parking lot. She started crying very hard and got very angry at me for telling her very good friend about us because she saw how unhappy he was and asked him what was wrong and he spilled it out. She said she felt very betrayed that I would hurt her like that and she was afraid of losing her friend because her friend would never trust her again. She then went on to say that she was going to give me a second chance for lying to her about smoking because of the touching text that I sent, but she felt that I told this friend of ours because I wanted to take revenge on her and make her feel guilty. She lost both a person that she loved and a very good friend of hers and that she regrets ever knowing me and even told me to quit my job and she never wants to see me ever again. Since she did say that she loves me but felt really betrayed by me. Is there a way to win her heart back by letting her cool off or is it really over when she said all those things to me about never wanting to see me again and regretting ever knowing me?
StrongLass Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 Sounds to me like your only real shot would be to ACTUALLY QUIT SMOKING and not lie to her again about such a thing. But yeah, when anyone tells you they'd rather they'd never met you that's never a good sign for any sort of friendly relationship continuing.
todreaminblue Posted June 29, 2014 Posted June 29, 2014 i don't know if she is the type to say wish i never met you or not, is she that type? i would suggest if she says it often or if you have heard her say it about others.... you have a chance if you give her some space.....i wish you well....deb
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