Black Cement Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Alright, so over the past few days I've been talking to this new girl I really like. I want to try to take it to the next level, but yesterday I had this bizarre dream of my ex. It was hazy, but it was her coming back into my life, apologizing & wanting to work it out. This morning I found out she broke up with her new bf too. I know my ex has the tendency to stalk me on social media & maybe she found out about this new girl i've been talking to. She told me when we broke up, that maybe I'll have my chance one day to win her heart. IDK how to feel, I want to move on to this new girl, but I want my ex back. Hella confused.
Elle1975 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Alright, so over the past few days I've been talking to this new girl I really like. I want to try to take it to the next level, but yesterday I had this bizarre dream of my ex. It was hazy, but it was her coming back into my life, apologizing & wanting to work it out. This morning I found out she broke up with her new bf too. I know my ex has the tendency to stalk me on social media & maybe she found out about this new girl i've been talking to. She told me when we broke up, that maybe I'll have my chance one day to win her heart. IDK how to feel, I want to move on to this new girl, but I want my ex back. Hella confused. Leave this new girl alone till your feelings get sorted out. 2
Author Black Cement Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 Leave this new girl alone till your feelings get sorted out. The thing is this new girl has to leave ME alone. I know it was just a dream about my ex, & she may not come back. But after knowing she broke up with that dude, & knowing she still is harboring feelings for me, makes me feel like something is going to happen. You're right, I'll just let my feelings get sorted with time.
organizedchaos Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Alright, so over the past few days I've been talking to this new girl I really like. I want to try to take it to the next level, but yesterday I had this bizarre dream of my ex. It was hazy, but it was her coming back into my life, apologizing & wanting to work it out. This morning I found out she broke up with her new bf too. I know my ex has the tendency to stalk me on social media & maybe she found out about this new girl i've been talking to. She told me when we broke up, that maybe I'll have my chance one day to win her heart. IDK how to feel, I want to move on to this new girl, but I want my ex back. Hella confused. Aw, isn't that nice? Some day, maybe, you'll get your chance to win HER heart back. As if yours doesn't matter. Aw. Blech. 5
Elle1975 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 The thing is this new girl has to leave ME alone. I know it was just a dream about my ex, & she may not come back. But after knowing she broke up with that dude, & knowing she still is harboring feelings for me, makes me feel like something is going to happen. You're right, I'll just let my feelings get sorted with time. You just tell her "I am not emotionally ready to invest myself right now". Problem solved. Why are you saying she still has feelings for you? Don't tell me you are talking about her taking 2 min to look at your social medias. I would cut all contacts all together. Work on yourself, then date someone else.
d0nnivain Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 If the things that broke you & your EX up haven't been resolved, there is not sense going backwards.
jbelle6 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Aw, isn't that nice? Some day, maybe, you'll get your chance to win HER heart back. As if yours doesn't matter. Aw. Blech. This is almost EXACTLY what went through my head. 1
Charlie Harper Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 She told me when we broke up, that maybe I'll have my chance one day to win her heart. DONT….. JUST DONT…you don't have to win NOBODY. Sort out your feelings and learn not to be a puppet of others feelings or make someone happy … my 2 cents.
Author Black Cement Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 You just tell her "I am not emotionally ready to invest myself right now". Problem solved. Why are you saying she still has feelings for you? Don't tell me you are talking about her taking 2 min to look at your social medias. I would cut all contacts all together. Work on yourself, then date someone else. She told me herself, even when she was with someone else. She got me screwed up in the head, tell me we can try it out in the future.
Author Black Cement Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 Go for it and try to get both girls. Maybe just the new girl, then if my ex comes back, then i'll decide who becomes the sidechick.
Elle1975 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 She told me herself, even when she was with someone else. She got me screwed up in the head, tell me we can try it out in the future. If she told you herself "I want you back", maybe it's time for you guys to sit down and talk; if that's what you want. Talking will help you figure things out. You might realize, you do not want her back.
JahnJahn Posted June 28, 2014 Posted June 28, 2014 Aw, isn't that nice? Some day, maybe, you'll get your chance to win HER heart back. As if yours doesn't matter. Aw. Blech. I noticed the same thing. Honestly, OP, you have another girl who is into you but you are still pinning over someone who kicked you to the curb and worst of all, she told you "You will have a chance to win HER back". That alone should have been enough for you to realise this girl is not for you.
Author Black Cement Posted June 29, 2014 Author Posted June 29, 2014 I noticed the same thing. Honestly, OP, you have another girl who is into you but you are still pinning over someone who kicked you to the curb and worst of all, she told you "You will have a chance to win HER back". That alone should have been enough for you to realise this girl is not for you. You know what, you're right my ex did my dirty. She lead me on and told me lies. It's time to move on. This new girl seems so much better than my ex.
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