iamwalrus Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 Alright. I'm gonna start out by saying: I'm getting sick of trying to figure all this out. Girls are confusing as hell... Anyway, Here's my delemma (like the 20-THOUSANDTH one I have posted about on forums): I'm in High school, I am a senior, and I have a class with this junior chick that I am really attracted to. She is very beautiful, and she has the sexiest hair. So... The class I'm in is pretty much all chicks, exept for about 6 dudes toward the left of the room - me, my friend, some other kid who's kinda weird, a chubby kid in the back, and his friend (who is usally sleeping). then there's this latino kid, who was supposed to graduate last year, but needed to get more credits (I'll talk about him later) So, this chick is ALWAYS doing something with her hair. Either she is stroking it, batting it, "dinosaur-tailing" it around (swinging it), and she is always doing little flirty things. I know she is flirting with someone. She is always over toward my part of the room... and that's where i have a question. I have come to the conclusion (I know the situation and the guys better than the readers of this, so I don't think that I need to do a bunch of elaboration) The conclusion: She is flirting with someone... either me, or the latino kid. (i am not a racist, mind you) Now, being a dude, it may be a little weird to hear this, but... if I were a chick, I would probably consider this dude to be a "ladies man"... he has a well trimmed beard... he wears "stud" clothing, and he's got the latino accent "chico, etc."... and i guess all around, you could say he's suave.. plus he's in better shape than I am... I'm not fat, but he is definetly more muscular than me, and stuff like that... but enough with the "gay" ****... I am a "funny guy" I can crack the class up in like 3 seconds, to a point where people laugh their bloddy asses off to tears... and I've done this many times in this class... so "personality" wise... I guess you could say I'm suave... I can talk to chicks with confidence (usually) and I just joke and joke and joke... I take almost nothing seriously... and people love my personality... but I'm not the "sexiest" guy... I am sort of attractive, but I'm not that hot... I would also like to say... i have made no "innuendo" or "flirting sign" to indicate that I like this chick... and I just keep it cool around her, and don't really even talk to her at all... so she doesn't know I like her (i say this beacuse I have heard that girls like guys that they can't have) so, what's the deal? What do chicks like in guys? is she flirting with him or me? any advice?
Sckott Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 She doesn't know you like her, right? Sounds like it's time she does. Pass her a note and see what happens. If you don't, you're a silly man. Worst thing she says is no. Life's too short. Don't wuss out.
Author iamwalrus Posted February 17, 2005 Author Posted February 17, 2005 ok... two seconds after I posted this, I recollected my thought... actually drew out the classroom... and thought of different scenarios... I think she likes me... becuase i do see her glance back in my direction all of the time... and when I am in class, i know she's looking at me... it's just when i got home tonight, the whole "picture" got screwed up in my head.. I started saying "oh, what are the chances" and "oh well your just kidding yourself..." whenever i don't drink caffene, i lose my self esteem. so yeah... he sits way to "north" in the room to be at the angle that she is always glancing.. but again, the picture got effed up in my head, and I just starrted to doubt. that's why i made this post... because in class, in the situtation, I am prety sure she is flirting with ME... but when I get out of the. sit, Satan talks to me... saying "your an unworthy one" so here's my plan... I'm gonna walk into class late tom... and I'm gonaa do it abruptly (swing the door open and stuff) and if she reacts with nerviousness and "hair flicking" ... i am gonna talk to her. But the question i need to have answered: What DO chicks like? (sorry if I posted this after an answer... if i did, you posted it while i was writing) thank you again.... God Bless
Author iamwalrus Posted February 17, 2005 Author Posted February 17, 2005 that's why I have a huge "irish espresso" every morning... to relax (liquer) and to get the blood pumping and take away "self pity" and "self conciousness" (caffene)... it works.. try it. Irish Espresso... it is great
Sckott Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 Irish expresso would make me jitter, but that's me. Be direct, be sweet, be yourself. Don't act all like Puff Daddy. Might wanna see that film with Will Smith in it. How not to act with chicks.
clynn Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 I love guys who are: - confident - funny - cute (this is subjective, lots of the guys I've fallen for aren't stereotypical cute but are totally hot as far as I'm concerned - share the same or similar values - Ask her out! - Tell us about it!
Mz. Pixie Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 I'm attracted to someone who is cute and funny!! I don't really go for the guys who are so handsome that they probably think they look better than me or the ones who spend too much time on their appearance. And, not to diss anyone but "Hey chica" wouldn't do much for me either. A great sense of humor is a BIG turn on. For example- there is a DJ at a popular radio station here. He's chubby and short. He is hilarious though. After listening to him over the years I can tell he's smart too. If I had the chance, I'd go out with him in a second. His personality turns me on! Let us know how it goes!
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