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Who initiates and how often?


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Most of the women I have been with have initiated physical interaction (intimacy) about 30-50% of the time. 50% I admit is high. My wife never really has initiated much, but I guess I hoped it would change if I stopped initiating so frequently (she never denies me sex, just never initiates).After experimenting for a few weeks, it seems that if I don't initiate, we would never have sex.

 

Is this normal? For a woman to only initiate sex 5-10% of the time?

 

I know the old joke is that men initiate almost all the time, but I wanted to confirm if there was any truth in that jest.

 

When I ask her why she says "I've never been one to initiate...never in my life. And I never really have before we were married either, so why are you surprised now?"

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Women aren't all the same.

 

Your wife has answered your question in respect to whether it's normal or not for her. :)

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