Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 I met a girl who is more special than any girl I have ever met. We get along so well. But she is from New Zealand and she has to go back soon. I'm completely devastated. I don't know what to do. I feel even worse than when my ex and I broke up. She has given me her details and said I should visit her in NZ but it doesn't kill the pain I'm feeling. What should I do?
regine_phalange Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 I met a girl who is more special than any girl I have ever met. We get along so well. But she is from New Zealand and she has to go back soon. I'm completely devastated. I don't know what to do. I feel even worse than when my ex and I broke up. She has given me her details and said I should visit her in NZ but it doesn't kill the pain I'm feeling. What should I do? Aw, the emotionality of youth. (Oh well. Im one too). Maybe you could start contacting her, and start to get to know her as a friend. And on your next vacation you can plan to go to NZ, either alone or with your friends. Does she like you back? What has she shown/told you? 2
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 Well we met at a club... made out. I didn't get her name but friends of mine that I was with that drove me home said I was devastates because I thought I hadn't gotten her details, and I just called her Special (I was drunk). The next day I was looking through my phone and had a new contact! I called and it was Special! We hung out since then a few times and there is just an amazing vibe between us. I really wish she didn't have to go I actually almost start crying when I think about it... Aw, the emotionality of youth. (Oh well. Im one too). Maybe you could start contacting her, and start to get to know her as a friend. And on your next vacation you can plan to go to NZ, either alone or with your friends. Does she like you back? What has she shown/told you?
veggirl Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Wow and here you thought you'd never meet someone after you dumped Crazy Girl! Where do you live? How far is NZ? 5
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 Wow and here you thought you'd never meet someone after you dumped Crazy Girl! Where do you live? How far is NZ? That's the problem. It's far away. I'm from the US. It's tragic because she really is the most special girl ever, it's so unfair that she is from NZ, I will never meet anyone else so special, and I wouldn't even want any errors else because she is so Special
Els Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 When is she leaving? IMO if you're as rich as you said you are, LDRs are going to be relatively easy for you. You will have plenty of resources to travel to see her, and you have more options for migration if it comes to that. But is it worth it for someone you've only met a few times? Only you can answer that. 2
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 Well I'm not really rich. I have a good job but it's definitely not enough to be put in the rich category. My brother and father are rich. Special is definitely worth it. She's leaving on Saturday :( :( When is she leaving? IMO if you're as rich as you said you are, LDRs are going to be relatively easy for you. You will have plenty of resources to travel to see her, and you have more options for migration if it comes to that. But is it worth it for someone you've only met a few times? Only you can answer that.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 What makes her so Special... The way she talks What she says The way she looks The feminine way she behaves Her sense of humour Her accent Her sweetness She's just 1 in a million... It just feels like my guts are being ripped when I think about her leaving :( :( 1
Emilia Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 On the other hand, it seems you have been doing MUCH better with chicks 5
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 On the other hand, it seems you have been doing MUCH better with chicks But the only one I want is Special Life is so unfair
mrs rubble Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 NZ is the best place in the world! Plan a holiday here. 3
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 Are you still drunk? Why would you say that? No I'm not... I'm just very upset
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 NZ is the best place in the world! Plan a holiday here. Sweet as The only thing I can say for certain about it is that it has the most Special girl in the world.
still_an_Angel Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 What makes her so Special... The way she talks What she says The way she looks The feminine way she behaves Her sense of humour Her accent Her sweetness She's just 1 in a million... It just feels like my guts are being ripped when I think about her leaving :( :( There are only over 4million kiwis in this world... you found one of us and got stumped. You should come over and meet more, you will enjoy everything kiwi. 3
Targetlock Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 you are drunk...on love don't lose contact with this girl, the regret will be far worse!! love knows no distance, don't let this opportunity get away from you, you never know where it might lead plus there is always skype! 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 There are only over 4million kiwis in this world... you found one of us and got stumped. You should come over and meet more, you will enjoy everything kiwi. This may be true, but how many of those 4 million are as special as her?
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 you are drunk...on love don't lose contact with this girl, the regret will be far worse!! love knows no distance, don't let this opportunity get away from you, you never know where it might lead plus there is always skype! You're right... I can't let her get away... but it will be weird if I suggest a long distance relationship after such a short time surely?
somedude81 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Whatever you do, don't let her move in with you... 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 Whatever you do, don't let her move in with you... Obviously not... she is leaving anyway and besides I have only known her a week. I had known my ex for a year before we made out... and Special made out with me the night we met... We definitely have a great connection...
Author Medium.Lumo Posted June 27, 2014 Author Posted June 27, 2014 On the other hand, it seems you have been doing MUCH better with chicks True, but not really... I think it's just this specific girl... she us amazing. I feel so comfortable with her. Before I met her I didn't really have anyone I had a connection with since my ex and I broke up.
David87 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 Rule one dude , never get comfortable with any girl, not even after 10 years of relationship And second you will find another girl just like you found this one and just like you found your ex, just relax and don't invest this much of your heart in every girl you meet for crying out loud. 1
haribogumsnickers Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 If you want her to stay, propose to her. If that fails, then say you're pregnant with her baby. Don't ask just do it. 4
David87 Posted June 27, 2014 Posted June 27, 2014 If you want her to stay, propose to her. If that fails, then say you're pregnant with her baby. Don't ask just do it. Propose?? Is this a joke? I guess it is:))
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