dollymixture Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Just got dumped last week and absoloutely devestated. Ex couldn't handle the arguing anymore. I know it took two of us to get into the rowing mess we did and we both have our faults, but the past week Ive been beside myself with regrets and coulda woulda shoulda's! There are times I just didn't appreciate him enough and its these that's led to him breaking up with me. After me begging and some toing and froing on his part ( still ending in a no though) I've gone complete no contact for the past 2 days. I'm finding it so hard to come to terms with and wondering wether I just send him one last message telling him how sorry I am for the things I did wrong. I can sense this is a struggle for both us and he's told me he still loves me. Good idea or let it be? Any advice would be much appreciated!
PegNosePete Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Let it be. He will not respond and you will be hurt. Or he will respond badly, and you'll be hurt. Or he will respond nicely, and you'll be hurt. It's just a lose-lose-lose situation. 1
Elle1975 Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Just got dumped last week and absoloutely devestated. Ex couldn't handle the arguing anymore. I know it took two of us to get into the rowing mess we did and we both have our faults, but the past week Ive been beside myself with regrets and coulda woulda shoulda's! There are times I just didn't appreciate him enough and its these that's led to him breaking up with me. After me begging and some toing and froing on his part ( still ending in a no though) I've gone complete no contact for the past 2 days. I'm finding it so hard to come to terms with and wondering wether I just send him one last message telling him how sorry I am for the things I did wrong. I can sense this is a struggle for both us and he's told me he still loves me. Good idea or let it be? Any advice would be much appreciated! Nop, bad idea. Your intent is to once again beg for him to be back in your life. Don't tell me it's purely out of selfishness, after two days, I won't buy it. Stay no contact, that's the best way to get you out of this mess. He will in time forget the arguments and see the good in you again. I know it's hard and you sincerely regret your behavior, but it will not help. "her again?!" is what will pop through his mind.
Author dollymixture Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 Your right it is just the desperation talking. I keep thinking one last try, but its obviously too late for any sorry's and it wont change anything. Thanks for replying, really helped me to get it out on here
Griesfootball Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 If you have already said once about how you feel he won't forget that so repeati yourself will only make you look needy. If you've already said an apology stay away for now
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