Amazing what ppl would do to try to hurt you. even after they left you.

[JoeFallkon]

Ok so been here for a while.had to leave the US for family reasons. My girl came after 2 months she got me in trouble here, ended up leaving. Never said she dumped me but i knew it was over. Like most of us.. begged for her not to leave and then a week after texted her to come back. She just read them.

 

Well shes been home in California. and i started NC.

2 weeks after she messaged the lanlord here to see if he had any rooms left.. i was like wtf is she thinking. Then she would message my friends One she messaged to see if i was ok,my friend told her i was doin great and she was like.. oh cuz she was afraid i d kill myself.

She would send short messages and love songs.Then she tried hitting on another friend and he told me about it..

I deleted my facebook when she blocked me. i had other reasons too..and made another with a fake name. only got 6 friends so far, i messaged family. and she went out her way to find another one of my friends that she dont even know. went through her hundreds of friends and sent me a friend request. I decided to break NC and asked her what she wanted. she said she was sorry for hittin on my friend and about all that had happened. i asked what she meant with a love she sent, she said she was confused.. then we changed the subject and talked for a bit. then i realized she was just reading and i said good bye. she said, bye. so i blocked her from FB.

Next day shes like im in love with.. lets say Frankie on a chat app. i just deleted it.

Day after she sends me another love song (kc and jojo, all my life) and a pic of her. i didnt reply back.

Then yesterday she sends me another message in that chat app saying that she missed me and would like to chat after she got off work.. well i ignored her and at night she sent 4 pics. i ignored. then she was like.. You know Frankie right? 30 mins passed and i look at the pics, Theyre screen shots of this ahole and her texting eachother. This was 16/20 june.

That guy saying he needed her in her life and her saying she missed him. Then some text about getting married.

 

Trip on this though. That guy is one of the lanlords friends we met him once at a bar only and i was with her all night he was just standing around with a beer.. im for sure they didnt even talk till after she left . he is not in the US.. Its obvious that shes just tryin to get me jealous and maybe fight him, but she is not worth it. and of course that guy fell for it cuz he is ugly AF.. and shes a beautiful white girl, blue eyes.

 

So im thinking she tried getting here first when she asked the lanlord if he had rooms available.and then tried getting my attention by hittin on my friend thats in the US, but all that didnt work so im thinking shes gonna trick / manipulate this Frankie guy just to come here and then there are gonna be problems. All the guys there are in the US and she had to pick this dummy? and he is buying it..lol

 

Man.. i just hope no one gets hurt..

she never seems to stop surprising me.

NC has got her gone crazy.

 

Btw i told her not to contact me again. and blocked her from that chat app too.

Edited June 26, 2014 by JoeFallkon

[David87]

What did you expect? This is what happens when you break NC.....don't do it again in the future.

 

Next time you initiate NC don't tell her just do it.

[JoeFallkon]

yea man. i know i messed up..

but im just so surprised what they do to keep you down.

told her to quit drunk textin me cuz shes been textin me from 2am to 7 am

also told her i was talking to someone else, and she knows i dont cheat..

 

i remember one time we were at walmart. some fine ass girl walks by.. shes like "why dont you make me jealous? she was hot.."

i told her.. i have you.. i have no eyes for anyone else..

even when i thought i did right, in her eyes i did wrong.. who the fk makes their partner jealous on purpose?

[Sugarkane]

Yet another dumper playing games and taking the low road? Doesn't surprise me at all.

[David87]

Yet another dumper playing games and taking the low road? Doesn't surprise me at all.

 

Some people never got dumped in their entire life, they literally dont have a clue how it feels when someone dumps them, thats why they act this way.

[No Limit]

Whatapp has a blocking function if I remember correctly.

[JoeFallkon]

Some people never got dumped in their entire life, they literally dont have a clue how it feels when someone dumps them, thats why they act this way.

 

Been dumped once .. but that ex didnt play no games like this one. This one expects me to beg and beg till she finds love again. which i know for sure itll take a while. sht she's been doing shows me that she wants to come back and gets really upset if i ignore her.

 

Idk if this method of making people jealous has worked with any of her exes, but for me, its about pride. I still love her, but this stuff she is doing is just scaring me and pushing me away even more. I had hoped we'd get back together, but after this last thing, i dont think i can. I know she is still gonna be talking to that guy and that really makes me mad, but what can i do? start NC again..

Edited June 27, 2014 by JoeFallkon

[soccerrprp]

and of course that guy fell for it cuz he is ugly AF.. and shes a beautiful white girl, blue eyes.

 

I'm sorry, but what does AF.. mean? And what does her race and eye color having anything to do with anything?

[JoeFallkon]

What i meant was that i know im not that great looking but that guy is so ugly, That just shows that she is doing all this on purpose and she is just manipulating him for a place to stay, since her plan didnt work when she asked the landlord here if there was anything available.

 

And i was just saying she is so beautiful.

[JoeFallkon]

update

 

ok so she emails me now, that i had blocked her on the chat app.

tells me to please chat, that she misses me, that shes really sorry and that she wont let her pride get in the way.

so 2 days ago i unblock her on the chat app.we chat for a bit. she sends me a screen shot texting "Franky" tellin him that she messaged him out of spite to get me jealous and blocks him from FB.

We got to chat again and she says she has nothing without me. kept texting and all of the sudden i receive a video call from her. She started cryin..

Made my cry a bit too. She told me she loved me, not to get back together. we lost signal, but kept texting a bit.

She said that her heart ached. and when i said good night, she asked to please not block her.

 

Things are getting a lil brighter, but only time will tell.

I really love this girl.

Edited July 1, 2014 by JoeFallkon

[David87]

Oh well she didn't say she wants you back. Only when she says that you decide what to do, don't let her play with your emotions like that, it's not fare.

[Chi townD]

Unless you get the "I'm sorry. I'm an idiot and I'll do anything to get you back." then the rest of it is crap. You ALMOST got that, but not quite.

[JoeFallkon]

She did say sorry for being childish and selfish and that she loves me and thinks about me all day. That everything she does and everything she sees reminds her of me.

 

Its a hard situation since we dont live in the same country, iam currently goin to school full time and not working, so itd be very hard unless i get a job which i already started looking for my own good. and she didnt ask for me back yet, but she did tell me that she had nothing without me. She did ask me to go back to the US, but i cant, gotta take care of my gramma. Shes havin surgery this week.

 

 

I also have the idea in my head that it may not happen, but like i said, time will tell. Im not gonna beg or anything, Imma let her do the chasing.

Edited July 1, 2014 by JoeFallkon

[JoeFallkon]

ok so update for today . i get a hello and i say hi back, then a bit after she says.. "so when am i gonna go there"

now i really have to plan this, cuz i know this will be the last chance to make this work and i told her. We ve been talking very often.

 

Wish me luck guys

[JoeFallkon]

so i told her this, how we have to plan it, and she got upset, sending me short messages. Talked to my gramma yesterday about my ex,and she told me that she messaged my uncle, asked him if she could stay with him for a while and that way she can give me a surprise. She wants to come back here, but like i said, i dont want the same sht to happen again. She thinks just cuz she said sorry to me makes everything alright.