notserene Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 H went out this weekend to get some stuff for the house and OW saw him while he was shopping. She asked him, "Where is your wife?" He was startled and said "She knows where I am." She said, "I just hope that you don't hurt anyone else." At that point he put his stuff down and left. He came home and told me what happened He described her as "smirking." He seemed a little shaken up. I am triggering a bit this week after a few weeks of feeling relatively decent.
whichwayisup Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 I wish he had just ignored her and kept on going. Hopefully if there is a next time he will just walk away and not say a word. Engaging in any conversation just feeds the fuel to her fire. Seems she's in blame mode, blaming him for hurting her? Hey she had a helping hand in this, she isn't innocent. Don't let triggers and today's incident get in the way of all the progress that's been made. It's okay to have some rough and bad days but don't let it take you too many steps backwards. Tomorrow you and your H do something fun. See a funny movie or go shoot some pool, have a nice dinner etc.. 3
tornapart2002 Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 How about who she hurt? You?! LIttle bitch... Sorry....I keep envisioning that someday this encounter will happen in my situation. If the MOW ever approaches me I know for a fact I'll hit her in the face. Holy crap I am really bitter today. I'm sorry for the pain you are going through. As you can tell I'm really triggering this week too and having a lot of painful moments. I'll be thinking of you and your husband. I'm sorry he's going through this too, but such is the fallout from his actions.
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