WhiskeyJack Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 K so haven't courted anyone in awhile in the traditional sense. Theres a guy, friends with my brother, that I am interested in. I would like to get to know him more, go on a few dates with him and see where it goes. But its getting to the "dating" part I need help with. I'm going to mention now that I may have already done stuff with him(no sex) after a drunken party, he slept in my bed, and at breakfast while I was still in bed my dad had asked him if he slept in my brothers bed, to which he replied no. Thus letting my dad know he was in my bed. Alright now I gotta say I was staying the night at my dads that night (I'm 25) and he's my brothers friend(24) and very close with my family, so this wasn't a weird question. (Yeah I know it sounds fuc*ked. It's not) Anyways, after that night I gave it a few days then text him, he replied, then that was it. Another couple of night later I text him and he replied, I asked to go out one night to play pool since he likes it and he kicked my ass last time. To which he replied that we'd get together at some point. Now like 4 days later I messaged him again and he's been replying a little bit while at work, brought up pool again, then brought up going rock climbing (I bailed the last 2 times my brother asked me to go with them) and asked when I was going to "Balls up" and come. I replied I would when I got upper body strength. Yeah I'm failing at this or he doesn't like me. But how should I go from here, I need help.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 K so haven't courted anyone in awhile in the traditional sense. Theres a guy, friends with my brother, that I am interested in. I would like to get to know him more, go on a few dates with him and see where it goes. But its getting to the "dating" part I need help with. I'm going to mention now that I may have already done stuff with him(no sex) after a drunken party, he slept in my bed, and at breakfast while I was still in bed my dad had asked him if he slept in my brothers bed, to which he replied no. Thus letting my dad know he was in my bed. Alright now I gotta say I was staying the night at my dads that night (I'm 25) and he's my brothers friend(24) and very close with my family, so this wasn't a weird question. (Yeah I know it sounds fuc*ked. It's not) Anyways, after that night I gave it a few days then text him, he replied, then that was it. Another couple of night later I text him and he replied, I asked to go out one night to play pool since he likes it and he kicked my ass last time. To which he replied that we'd get together at some point. Now like 4 days later I messaged him again and he's been replying a little bit while at work, brought up pool again, then brought up going rock climbing (I bailed the last 2 times my brother asked me to go with them) and asked when I was going to "Balls up" and come. I replied I would when I got upper body strength. Yeah I'm failing at this or he doesn't like me. But how should I go from here, I need help. This reads as a rejection to me. Call him and suggest a specific date/place.
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