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Well I went to see him today...


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I went to my exbf's house today to pick up some things I hadn't gotten around to grabbing when I moved out last October. And THE HOUSE IS EXACTLY HOW I LEFT IT!!! Theres even a family photo from a trip we took still up by his tv. Theres still stuff left on my old dresser and old clothes in a pile right beside the dresser.

 

I don't get it! It was a huge shocked and I had to leave as soon as I walked in cause I got emotional. Why is everything exactly how I left it!?

 

Also he acted like I had never left, took me for a drive in his truck to pick up some things, even called me by an old pet name and before I left he even asked if I "would come out again sometime". Not in a questioning way, but in a I want to see you again way.

 

Bahhh.... What does this all mean?!

 

Note; I'm the one who got dumped and that was back in October. So It's been 8 months.

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It simply means that he has not moved on, and you should not take this as any sign.

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It simply means that he has not moved on, and you should not take this as any sign.

 

Yeah.... That makes sense.

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It means that he misses you and the way your life used to be. If you still have feelings for him perhaps you guys could give it another try. I don't know the dynamics of the relationship but perhaps.

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Honestly, that doesn't sound very healthy to me. He hasn't moved on but still doesn't want a relationship? That's not good.

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Honestly, that doesn't sound very healthy to me. He hasn't moved on but still doesn't want a relationship? That's not good.

 

I was kinda thinking the same thing.

 

Its weird that after that long he hasn't rearranged the room or anything. If it is just laziness....is that someone you want to be with?

 

On the other hand, I think he definitely has some lingering feelings.

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I agree it doesn't sound healthy. But I know for a fact it's not laziness, he's an incredibly hard working man. He's constantly on the go, if he wanted it changed he would have changed it.

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Scenario one: He hasnt moved on, is finding it hard letting go and wants to reconcile.

 

Scenario two: He is indifferent and leaving the bits there doesnt bother him

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