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Hello everyone!! I'm new to this forum. My name is Amelia and I am 18 years old. Since June 2011 I was in a relationship with this guy. We dated for 3 years and I got a call from my friend saying that she saw my boyfriend holding hands with some girl in school. I went to his house and confronted him about it.

 

He got very angry and was being very cold towards me and said that he just doesn't want a girlfriend right now. So I cried and begged and everything. He was my best friend. He has gone everywhere with me and he called my mom mom. He was like a brother to my little sister. Later that day I was on Facebook and a friend messages me a picture of his new Facebook account that says he was in a relationship with another girl. I was so confused. He broke up with me on Wednesday and was dating this girl since Monday.

 

The Friday before this he came to the hospital with me for my hip surgery and spent the night there because they kept me overnight. He laid right by the bed and held my hand. He bought me flowers in the gift shop and came over on Sunday! On Father's Day! He came over and took care of me. He kissed me and cleaned my room and wrote me a little love letter telling me that everything is going to be ok and he loves me more than anything in the world and he also wrote that he will always be here for me no matter what.

 

Then Monday and Tuesday he didn't come over and Wednesday I confronted him.

We talked about getting married having children and being a whole family because both our families are broken. We went through a miscarriage together. He was my first and I was his. He bought me a promise ring with our names and our birthstones in it. He spent every weekend sleeping over my house. We were the best friends you could ever imagine. He cheated on me over and over and I took him back again and again. He is 18 and I am almost 18. Everyone tells me to give him some space and he will eventually call me or text me. Also he won't give me back my baby pictures or the things of mine that are at his house and he won't come pick up his stuff from my house. He won't even give me a day that he will come over and get his things. He won't text or call me.

 

My house is so empty and lonely without him. My entire family aunts uncles grandparents all love him. He was there for every holiday for the past 3 years. Please be honest with me do you think he will come back? Even just as a friend?

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Do you know how NC works? Hardest.thing.ever. To do but it works. Works to make them starting thinking you've mood on an miss you and to get over them.

I have a saying

"They always come back"

And for me, it has always been true.

Every ounce of you is going to want to call. Beg. Or yell at him however it never EVER works.

I also suggest looking into "the grass in greener theory" your still young and this might seem like the end of the world but it's not.

Use this. Use this summer to get in shape. Tan. Go out with friends. Make him so you will not be a doormat. Three years together and he'll be wondering why YOU moved on

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