alphamale Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 Originally posted by HotCaliGirl [color=blue](I wouldn't mind getting a Jag though~ [/color] naah, i'm jes mad cause i got nuthin' for v-day first time in 5 yrs
karlym3 Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 Personally, I wouldn't give a valentine's card to a girl I'd been dating for 6 weeks -- way too much too soon. Apparently the guy ive been dating for 6 weeks feels the same way A card would be soooo appreciated!!)
karlym3 Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 ...yikes, what if he's "against" christmas, or birthdays? that would make me "against" sex with him lol
blind_otter Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 Originally posted by nicki if he cares/loves you even a little bit now, then he will pay attention to what you want. if he ignores your wishes, then i'd watch out for him in the future...yikes, what if he's "against" christmas, or birthdays? that would make me "against" sex with him I actually don't celebrate Christmas, I don't ask for gifts on my b-day (if they really want to do something I ask that they donate to charity in my name), I don't celebrate stupid made up holidays like v-day. When I got married I didn't ask for gifts, me exH and I asked that people donate to charities in our name. I am just not into getting random "things" - I hate cards, they are clutter and I just throw them away. Flowers die. Chocolate makes me break out. I have eccentric taste in jewelry and would rather not get clothes or anything, I would rather just buy stuff myself. Some people are just not into things, and personally, after my past history with abusive men etc., I would rather be with someone who respects me and treats me well than bitch about little stuff. You choose your battles, in relationships and most especially in marriage. I learned the hard way that you should save your bitching for when it really counts - otherwise they get totally numbed to your attitude and start to ignore you because hell - I would ignore someone complaining about not getting presents, too.
HotCaliGirl Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 You choose your battles, in relationships and most especially in marriage. I learned the hard way that you should save your bitching for when it really counts - otherwise they get totally numbed to your attitude and start to ignore you blind_otter - that is VERY good advice...hmmmm - like it a lot...
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