Justmejames Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 Ok, I went to a party with my brother(one that he told me about the ****ing day it happened!), met this girl and her sis that both new him a bit, we talked she showed a little interest and uninterest. The party escalated we danced, I was all over her in the dance, she got drunk (almost purposely). And later went to the bathroom. I followed ofcourse. We nearly had sex 3 times. This was one of them, however i was unsure I would have been able to get a stiffy. see the problem is I had masturbated twice in one day before this party (as the chick I was talking to before this put my horny ass off). But I really didnt want to pass up this opportunity(she was a 9/10!), so tried really hard. But as I was pulling down her shorts she asked me for a condom. But ****! I had come unprepared. I told her I would put it in then take it out, she laughed and said maybe next time. so I told her I'd get it from my brother. and ofcourse she asked why I didnt get it before, but it ****ing slipped my mind for safe sex then. This chick was horny as ****, before I left for the condom we kissed and she was dry humping me.lol. I felt then on I would regret this day if I didnt bang her. I went for the condom got to the bathroom and she wasnt there. they said she went back to the dance floor. so I went back up there and dance with her some more, only this time she was all over me now(even telling me she was horny as ****). I told her I got the condom and tried to get her to the bathroom. she hesitated a bit ofcourse didnt want to make it look obvious. she then again needed to pee. she left and I went right after her. this time the sister follwed.. while in the bathroom this time she hesitated a bit telling me she appreciated my effort but we need to drop it ofcousre I didnt take that for a no, but as I was about to me in to kiss her, her sis showed up knocking on the door. And i stupidly opened the door. Now if I was 100% or even 60% horny at this point, I would have just ignored her and went straight to making out. also the girl said she was wispering to me not to open the door but I didnt hear her correctly (only heard the open the door part). anyways the sis dragged her back up there. and things got awkward. as the party was coming to a closed. and may have said some dumb things..like ''I agree with her sis we should do this somber'' and asked her for her number, which she did give me however. later my brother offered her a ride home. But when we got to the place and I had walked her to the door and kissed her on the hand, her sis came infront of me and told she would call me if she wanted to see me again, you know backing me off...another chance ****ed up I felt. at even 60% horny I would of forced my self in there. but I still had the number so I felt i still had a chance. So I texted her the next day, if she felt better. hoping to just get a reply. but she didnt reply. I then made the stupid mistake of calling her twice on the same day. and the day after with another message ''why wont you answer my call''. Because I thought we may have connected a bit. I didnt call her the other day though and I'm currently on the forth day. my question now is to the female member especially. did I **** up? do you think she will never reply? should I just move on?
Strength in Healing Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 I then made the stupid mistake of calling her twice on the same day. and the day after with another message ''why wont you answer my call''. Because I thought we may have connected a bit. I didnt call her the other day though and I'm currently on the forth day. my question now is to the female member especially. did I **** up? do you think she will never reply? should I just move on? LMAO. Dude. Never text her or call her again, nor interact with ANYONE she knows. Trust me.
Frank2thepoint Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 She was drunk, her sister protected her from you taking advantage of her, you texted and called, and never got a reply. You didn't screw up, she is just not interested having a one night stand.
Author Justmejames Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 LMAO. Dude. Never text her or call her again, nor interact with ANYONE she knows. Trust me. So your saying I screwed up?? what if I called her again 2 days later (tomorrow)? She was drunk, her sister protected her from you taking advantage of her, you texted and called, and never got a reply. You didn't screw up, she is just not interested having a one night stand. Funny thing is she got herself drunk on purpose. And she had told me beforehand (before we danced)she had a boyfriend and didnt want anymore friends, bla bla. so why on earth would she give me her number, (I even let her put it in my phone for me). and not reply to my calls/message? it cant be because she wasnt interested in a one night stand, as she made it perfectly clear to me before that she had a boyfriend.
ASG Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 She was drunk and not thinking straight. Now she's sobered up and decided against it. It happens. Move on.
Author Justmejames Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 She was drunk and not thinking straight. Now she's sobered up and decided against it. It happens. Move on. So dont call her again tomarrow? and just ''next'' her?
starrynightz45 Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Yea. I'm sure you tried to get a hold of her because you felt a "connection." Come on man. She was drunk and you were trying your best to take advantage of that. I'm not saying she's an innocent party, but her sister was clearly trying to stop you from taking advantage of her. She's obviously sober now and not into it. Drop it and move on.
Author Justmejames Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 (edited) She wasnt that drunk. I mean she told me she wouldnt do it without a condom! if she was fully drunk she wouldnt have mind..also she put the number in my phone! she made sure she put the correct one too. I mean really dont you think I should just call her ONE more time (and maybe leave another message?) I need some help man. I really like this chick, Ive never met one this freaky! its driving me insane how I messed up not bagging her! and I need the girls to reply mostly; Put yourself in her position what would u do? and what would you be thinking to not answer or reply to the person message. maybe she doesnt know whos number, or she must know its me considering I left a ''why dont you answer my call'' messages? Edited June 26, 2014 by Justmejames
Author Justmejames Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 I just texted her again. ''hey, whats up? how are things?'' (still no reply) Should I now follow up with ''its the guy from the party the other day...really enjoyed the dance"?
Zahara Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Come morning, the sister probably told her what happened and it turned her off. And if some guy is pestering me because now as I'm sober, all I can think off is that he was trying to take advantage of me, I'd be ignoring him too. Little drunk or a lot drunk, judgment is skewed. She's probably regretting the whole thing. And you going clingy on her is only making you look worse. And no, please don't call anymore. Silence is a very loud and clear response.
Zahara Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 (edited) I just texted her again. ''hey, whats up? how are things?'' (still no reply) Should I now follow up with ''its the guy from the party the other day...really enjoyed the dance"? OMG. You're sounding like a desperate creepy guy now. Please stop. You're making it worse. Missed the part about her boyfriend. SMH. Edited June 26, 2014 by Zahara
Author Justmejames Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 Ok ok, but I think I should atleast follow up with ''its the guy from the party'' or call her. She probably doesnt even know its me!
Author Justmejames Posted June 26, 2014 Author Posted June 26, 2014 OMG. You're sounding like a desperate creepy guy now. Please stop. You're making it worse. Missed the part about her boyfriend. SMH. yeah so what you got to say now?
Zahara Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 Ok ok, but I think I should atleast follow up with ''its the guy from the party'' or call her. She probably doesnt even know its me! She knows it's you. She's not an idiot. You desperation is unattractive. Please stop.
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