Tmo2 Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 I don't know the circumstances of your break up, but don't go back because it's easy or comfortable to get back into a routine. It's a lot more work rebuilding the relationship. You have to find out whether you can do that and especially if they can do it with you. Did you go NC at all during that time? It seems that it would be really tough to keep in contact with someone for months after a break-up. Was it the space that you both gave each other? Most people on LS would say just go to full NC and not talk to the person again. What's your take on it? With hindsight, the struggle of having partial contact was not worth it. I was improving myself in many ways, but I didn't see the big picture. I was stuck emotionally. Yea I was slowly healing and accepting, but I didn't ''get it''. I still had hope. She played me last summer, and I felt it quick. She got flaky, I snapped and stormed off. I haven't seen her since. I was pissed of and my heart stayed broken. Saying **** off to her in my head was my best move. I was already taking care of myself and concentrating on my future became easier. Things then fell into place quite nicely. I was in the beginning of my career and had things to do. In fall I met a gorgeous women with whom I had an incredible 6 month relationship with. And dammn she was hot and smart. An upgrade for sure. The time spent with her was really good and healthy. It made me mature allot. Unfortunately, I didn't fall in love with her and decided to part ways. Feeling a bit depressed I spontaneously contacted the ex (****). we exchanged a few emails to catch up on each other. I concluded by proposing her to contact me to get together when she passes in town. At which she replied positively. I remember being mad at myself for contacting her a while after. But it didn't throw me off for long and had an amazing time meeting people and seeing friends during the winter. She eventually contacted me to know what was happening with me. (3-4 months later). All was well and I was about to leave on a training course in the west coast until summer. Well, you guessed it. She contacted me again, today actually. Stating that she will be in our home town (where I live when not on course) for the remaining of the summer and to let her know if I'll be there. I have not yet decided on a course of action. I need to sleep.
Mr.Pine Posted June 25, 2014 Posted June 25, 2014 I have not yet decided on a course of action. I need to sleep. I am confused. Are you bragging or soliciting us for advice?
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