HeartbrokenNewbie Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 He's not coming back... That's it - Ive finally realised.. why did this have to take 11 months..
d0nnivain Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Some things just take time but now that you have realized this you can move forward.
Kermit76 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Took me 10 months to realize. Almost a sign of relief to now be able to move on. I did try to get her back but it didn't work out. 10 months is time wasted. The girl of my dreams could have been at an event and I chose to mope and feel sorry for myself during those 10 months. Lesson learned.
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 I cant help but think Ive clung on to something i knew was dead because I didnt want to have to look at my life! x
d0nnivain Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Maybe but you have gone this far without the other person. You will be OK
Zahara Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 I cant help but think Ive clung on to something i knew was dead because I didnt want to have to look at my life! x Some people take a little longer to let go. You were hopeful and hope is difficult to manage when your heart is broken. There is nothing wrong with that. So now, you have arrived at this juncture in your life. Don't beat yourself over it but embrace it and allow this to start you moving forward with your healing. 1
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 Yea, my future was with him and now that isnt happening it means I have to sort my own future and thats a bit daunting... x
Mistercash Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Its been 2 months since my ex moved away and broke up with me. When you build up such a strong bond with someone, it makes it that much harder to let go and we hope and yearn for much longer than we should. It leaves us with such a soft spot in our hearts for our ex lovers. But hey, thats what makes us human. 1
emotionalMess Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Cool! I'm going to refer to this as theFog-lifter Phase. I just broke out of the fog recently too! Congrats. Celebrate your progress!!
Chi townD Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 He's not coming back... That's it - Ive finally realised.. why did this have to take 11 months.. I would hope that you realize that he's not coming back and do you know what? It isn't the end of the world!
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