nightbird101 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Long story short in Dot point form 7 year relationshipengaged 2 years agolived with eachother for 4 yearsshe breaks it off with me3 months later and I suddenly miss her and want to talk to her Now I know I SHOULDN'T contact her. If she wants to try our relationship out again she should be the one to call me. But here's the thing. She's not really a social person and isn't really that good at approaching people. For example she never wanted to speak to her father most of the time I was with her. Anyway What I'm getting at is I know I shouldn't contact her, I'm so tempted to to see how it goes but I know it wont turn out well...and if it does I open myself up to be hurt by her again. What do you do to keep NC going at the end of the day?
David87 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 I keep reminding myself that she dumped me and she thinks that i'm not good enough to be part of her life.
Kermit76 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Thanks David. Something said so simple makes perfect sense. That is the reality.
David87 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 No problem buddy and always remember it's her job to find a way to communicate with you, even if she just wants to be friends. She broke your heart in a million pieces and then she left......and when she decides to talk to you its up to you if you accept that or not.
Author nightbird101 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 No problem buddy and always remember it's her job to find a way to communicate with you, even if she just wants to be friends. She broke your heart in a million pieces and then she left......and when she decides to talk to you its up to you if you accept that or not. Wow, well said. Just from that the urge is gone completely. Cuz its true. and I'm sure many people will agree (if your a dumpee).
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