ForHer Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Will we be a family again? I was in a long term Relationship and we had a baby, the stress was crazy and my hormones all over the place, Me and my boyfriend got in a fight and he said he's moving out for good. Our daughter was only 6 weeks old(he still sees her) I cried I begged I got mad Went back to crying At first he said it will work out he needs time to think I pressured is to get back together Cried ,begged etc Now he says "he dosnt want to be together" After 3 weeks of not being together I find out he's now dating a girl he JUST met two weeks ago. Our daughter is now 9 weeks old If I start lC and gaining control of myself and try an act like I'm moving on will he miss the three of us being a family. I've acted EXTREMELY in control of myself around him ever since he got a new girlfriend. Please help. Do you think it's rebound. Do you think he'll question leaving? Will he want a family. He said he never picture it like this until the day of our fight (Fight being about him needing to help out more and put other activities on the back burner) Help...please Share
bluenote Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Its a very bad situation since you have an infant and this man just decided he is out. Ok you did not elaborate what you did in the fall out that was so serious for him to take such a drastic step. Personaly I hate men who abandon their kids no matter what the situation is. Well its good he still sees the baby. You have to plan for the worst and hope for the better. The best for you is like they say let him go, he will return if he loves you two for real. Let him go don't contact him in any way except for when he sees the baby. Act collected and that you don't have a care in the world when he is around. If he cares he will feel left out of the team and come running back, if not up to him. I know one thing about us men, its always nice to have an extra kathingy, so this probably would have hapened even if he didn't move out so that shouldn't be the main problem. Its not descreed because he moved out if he didn't you probably wouldn't know about her. Please comfort yourself whatever hapens, be hapy about the baby, just know you can manage wether he comes back or not. Be strong for the baby.
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