TigerLilly78 Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 everybody is free to date whoever they want to but being overweight is not attractive. like being a drug user is not attractive or being an alcoholic.. I dont want to be labelled ignorant just because I am not attracted to a category of people that decided to choose an unhealthy lifestyle.. be overweight, like other excess are wrong for the simply reason that you can die from it and people should think about that BEFORE everything else and before start calling whoever doesnt agree with them, ignorant or narrow minded ect ect ect. being super skinny is exactly the same thing, it is unhealthy and it is not attractive. saying this I am not saying that overweight people doesnt deserve happiness and if you are happy with your own skin then what is the problem if there will be part of the population who wont find you attractive? you will always find another part that will be. I have been overweight and I had acne ( still have it ) and I have never had a go to guys that didn't find my spots attractive sorry - or called them ignorant, fortunately it is not cancer so thanks god those things still can be cure so what is wrong in making an effort and find a solution if you think that could help your self esteem and maybe make you more happy? See the thing every one conveniently over looks when responding to my posts is I said belittling over weight people simply because you find them unattractive is ignorant yes. The act of disrespecting some one solely based on their looks is indeed in my eyes and im sure others ignorant. And im sure some would even add shallow. Im not going to say you have to find it attractive please point out were I said you must find it attractive? you don't that's your right by all means why cant some see the difference here? ill never understand...
TigerLilly78 Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 I for one am ashamed of myself as a fatty. But losing weight isn't as easy as some of you make it sound. And just because the pounds slid off you "when you put your mind to it" doesn't mean it will work for someone else. Remember, everybody is different. I have lost 90 in 2 years but still have a ways to go. I've always been overweight but how did I get up to my origian horribly obese weight? Depression. My mom, my dad, my uncle and 2 beloved pets died in a two year period. Since everybody is different what did I do to cope? I ate. Some people have sex or shop to cope. Some may go to a therapist or walk. Yes, I made horrible choices, but it was my choice. I don't need some hypocrrit online telling me that basically I suck and being fat is a choice and how easy it is to lose. Its not. Its damn hard. This weight gain took 4 years, more than half of that is off now. There are also medical reasons for weight gain. Its not always by choice. Look it up. You really don't have to be ashamed of yourself im sure you are a good person just as you are...your weight is a number and not a reflection of the person inside..If losing it makes you feel better awesome and I sincerely wish you the best of luck but never be ashamed of who you are..And sorry for your losses that sucks..
preraph Posted June 26, 2014 Posted June 26, 2014 I agree with the poster who said to make sure your profile and stated preferences doesn't open the door to all types when in fact all you like is young skinny women. I'm fat, and my preference would certainly be no response. None, nada.
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