bluenote Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 A while ago I met a lady, we started chating and flirting. I don't know realy where we stand. We have not been intimate or anything but very close. The problem I have is that one day we spent time and its all very nice and comfy, at the end she will say that next day she will be a bit busy but thst she will text me when done and we can meet. Naturaly I wait and look forward but nothing, no text or anything. I text and call to ask waht hapened and she ignores, this hapened two weeks ago. After trying to contact her in vain I jusdt deleted her number and carry on. It was extremely frustrting first time it hapened without anything, no explanation just quiet. Last Friday she contact me by text. we met and although I wanted to ask what hapened last time I didnt want to break the mood. we jst chat and so on and then she said next day she had to do somthin at church and after she would text and we can meet. I agreed and left. Nect day whole day I wait and wait but nothing, I later text and called nothing. Now I am so frustrated and angry. I wrote several text about how unfair this is and how it makes me feel but nothing. I know and I decided that I will never respond or react if she contacts me again. I am just so angry why would someone be doing somthing like that for no reason. What makes a person do this?
spiderowl Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 I don't know. I'm sorry about what happened to you; it wasn't very nice. I wouldn't take it personally. She probably does this to every guy she meets. It may be that she's married and so can't respond as she promises. Regardless, you don't want to get involved with a crazy woman.
DArtagnan2 Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 I really have no answer for why people do what they do, and what she is doing in this situation because I would never do that and I wonder myself why this happens. My only guess is she gets busy and has no consideration for you or your time. That whatever else is going on is more important to her. its a little dis-respectful and annoying, but as you know, she is not someone that you need or want around if she is going to be this on and off.
Potz4prez Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 Don't get worked up over someone so immature. She's not worth your time.
Assasda Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 You are a needy person. Thats why this is happening to you. why are you needy for her texts? See when you stop bothering her, she texts you. And why do you live or die by her every word, dont you have anything else better to do? You should really be indifferent when someone says that they'll text you if it is not an emergency, she doesnt owe you anything. So go ahead and get mad, it wont mean anything in the long run. Handle yourself like a man, and not a boy
Author bluenote Posted June 24, 2014 Author Posted June 24, 2014 That is your opinion about me, interesting observation indeed. the question was not to prompt an indepth analysis of my charachter but rather how that state of mind is for someone to act this way, its the first time I experience somthing like this and I just wondered if its normal or something. Well needless to say I am interested in the lady ofcourse, like I said first time it hapened I deleted her number and I did not contatc her, when she contacted me I though ok well maybe something hapened for her to behave that way I didn't ask. When it hapened again I just couldn't believe it and I was raging angry that is why I sent several texts, serioiusly I would be abnormal not to try and punch back in any way, just leave it asif it don't matter. thats pretentious. I am here and I don't have need for her to text me realy, if she made a promise wether she was potential girlfriend or just someone I know ofcourse it would bother me what hapened, i would want to know. And real sory if that is a sign of needyness in your world.I presume you would know better because it hapens to you too.
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