dramafreeman Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 here's some texts between me and my girlfriend today she said i was being a jerk her: i want to watch 22 jump street me: ok lets watch it her: ok me: tomorrow at 7:30 lets go her: i cant im babysitting me: ok tonight 7:20 her: i have plans me: ok then you tell me when you are free then me: nevermind... saturday night we are going..its settled was i being a jek?
soccerrprp Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 When did she say you were being a jerk? Seemed like a harmless exchange to me. At most, given what you've shared and me grasping, perhaps she was wanting you to ask her to the movie right then and there? IDK.... Jerk? No.
Author dramafreeman Posted June 23, 2014 Author Posted June 23, 2014 When did she say you were being a jerk? Seemed like a harmless exchange to me. At most, given what you've shared and me grasping, perhaps she was wanting you to ask her to the movie right then and there? IDK.... Jerk? No. she said the whole, you tell me when you are free was jerkish
todreaminblue Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 she said the whole, you tell me when you are free was jerkish no it wasnt...not to me anyway ...it was honest and up front....deb
DArtagnan2 Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 I don't see it as being a jerk. My guess is based on how she is feeling, she took it and got defensive.
Smilecharmer Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 Nope, she needed to give you a time and she was being evasive with a time to go. I thought you were fine. Not a jerk at all. 1
mrs rubble Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 I don't see anything in the slightest wrong with your exchange, you are not a jerk but your gf is super sensitive.....are her plans secret??
SoleMate Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 her: i want to watch 22 jump street me: ok lets watch it her: ok me: tomorrow at 7:30 lets go her: i cant im babysitting me: ok tonight 7:20 her: i have plans me: ok then you tell me when you are free then me: nevermind... saturday night we are going..its settled That was all fine....up until the bolded part, which is where it got jerky. 3
Assasda Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 here's some texts between me and my girlfriend today she said i was being a jerk her: i want to watch 22 jump street me: ok lets watch it her: ok me: tomorrow at 7:30 lets go her: i cant im babysitting me: ok tonight 7:20 her: i have plans me: ok then you tell me when you are free then me: nevermind... saturday night we are going..its settled was i being a jek? You got to be confident in your actions as a man. if you know that your actions are not rude, no one can tell you any different. Dont second guess yourself
Enjaycee Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Just like with any text, the choice of words can be interpreted/taken the wrong way. She probably thought you were getting frustrated about finding the movie times and said that in anger (Idk if you really were frustrated or not or if that's just how you say it). Next time, you can instead ask "Well, what is your schedule like, then?" which is a nice alternative response that gets you what you want without sounding harsh, so you can plan around that. Did she have a problem with the last part, about deciding for yourself that you were both going on Saturday? If she thought you were a jerk about that, that could be another problem there.
soccerrprp Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 That was all fine....up until the bolded part, which is where it got jerky. me: nevermind... saturday night we are going..its settled Yeah, maybe this. She could have construed this as you being impatient in the end and deciding for her.
dispatch3d Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 lol ahh you definitely weren't being a jerk. She's being ridiculous.
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