markzatyy Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 after my ex dumped me i slept with a girl two weeks after. somehow my ex found out and texted me asking if its true i slept with someone. i said "well yea" and she said "how could you do that?, i could never come in your house again" then a month later i was out on a date and saw my ex there she later facebooked me saying, i had gotten an uglier and that she didnt care but she just wanted to let me know sounds like jealousy?
OK_computer Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 after my ex dumped me i slept with a girl two weeks after. somehow my ex found out and texted me asking if its true i slept with someone. i said "well yea" and she said "how could you do that?, i could never come in your house again" then a month later i was out on a date and saw my ex there she later facebooked me saying, i had gotten an uglier and that she didnt care but she just wanted to let me know sounds like jealousy? A little bit of jealously and also a bit of hate I feel more so. You dont tell people they got ugly unless you hate them. But the fact she went out of her way to msg u that means either she was really jealous or she hates you now. Why did u guys BU? Continue NC and be happy.
Author markzatyy Posted June 23, 2014 Author Posted June 23, 2014 A little bit of jealously and also a bit of hate I feel more so. You dont tell people they got ugly unless you hate them. But the fact she went out of her way to msg u that means either she was really jealous or she hates you now. Why did u guys BU? Continue NC and be happy. sorry meant that she said i had started dating an uglier girl she dumped me..because she wanted to do her own thing
toolforgrowth Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 I find this to be somewhat common amongst dumpers. Not all behave this way, but it's not atypical. My xGF broke up with me last summer. Okay. So I met someone new and started dating her. New girl was certifiably insane, so I ended that quick. Ended up starting an occasional FWB deal with a different lady. xGF came back in the picture, we started dating again briefly, and she ended it again. Why? Because I slept with those two women after she dumped me. She couldn't handle it. I never once apologized for that and answered her questions plainly when she asked. The issue is hers. They expect you to be forever broken when they dump you. When you pick yourself up and move on, they freak because they lost their power over you. And to all dumpers, if the dumped gets laid after you dump them, you have NO ROOM to b!tch. You ended it, so accept the consequences of what may happen. A dumped is not required to place their life on hold for you. They are free to do as they wish now, just like you are. It hurts them when you move on like they have. Tough luck for them. 2
Justaguy30 Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 Of course she is jealous, I am jealous of my ex and that she has moved on and I have heard she has been sleeping around a lot but she was doing that before. I am jealous that she is in love with someone else but only because I have not been able to move on. There is a little bit of hate but she only hates you because she feels like she cared more than you and if you really cared you wouldn't have moved on so soon.
toolforgrowth Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 Of course she is jealous, I am jealous of my ex and that she has moved on and I have heard she has been sleeping around a lot but she was doing that before. I am jealous that she is in love with someone else but only because I have not been able to move on. There is a little bit of hate but she only hates you because she feels like she cared more than you and if you really cared you wouldn't have moved on so soon. Dude, she dumped HIM. He's not required to wait a certain period of time just to satisfy her sensibilities. She wanted to end it, so she ended it. Her sensibilities are no longer his concern, and her butthurt is purely her problem. She certainly has no regard for his feelings, so why should he have regard for hers, especially since he is the dumpee?
Smarty Pants Posted June 23, 2014 Posted June 23, 2014 Yeah she's jealous. Good for you. Don't worry about that girl because she clearly didn't care about you when she broke up with you. Hope you keep dating and don't this girl get in your head.
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