TJ Posted February 16, 2005 Posted February 16, 2005 Hey gang, I know that sounds lame but yes. I apologise. Anyway, I have been going out with my girlfriend for approx. 2 years, 9 months and we have already made plans for our 3 years - which is to go away together for a romantic weekend somewhere in our Capital City, which is Melbourne. Anyway, this isn't the problem. My relationship is fine, she and I are happy together, do everything together and spend a large amount of time together which makes us happy too. I love her dearly and I know she feels the same, she's disabled, with an eye condition called Achromatopsia or Rod-monochromatism. We had problems at the start of the relationship but we smoothed them out and now everything is fun. But recently, a girl who I haven't talked to in many years has contacted me and started speaking to me as if we were dating (which we haven't). I find her slightly attractive and I think she is trying to lull me towards her, the problem is I can't stop thinking about her. Its bothering me alot, my heart wants to be with my girlfriend and my mind / body wants to be with this other girl. Can anyone suggest anything to help me out? To either make me realise that I would be making a mistake if this other girl ever wanted to do anything with me? I am worried as I don't trust myself properly. Thankyou for reading this
HotCaliGirl Posted February 16, 2005 Posted February 16, 2005 I think you have to focus on your current girlfriend and avoid the girl from the past before it ruins your relationship. You have built something nice with your current girlfriend over a significant period of time and along the way, there will be girls who may hit on you here and there and you have to use your brain, not hormones and someone's looks, as the basis of making important decisions. I wouldn't even take her phone calls anymore. It sounds like you are close to getting together with her and I'm afriad you will not only regret it, but end up breaking your current girlfriend's heart. Just STOP!!!
rowi1116 Posted February 16, 2005 Posted February 16, 2005 thank you, thank you, thank you! for being a guy who is being honest about the way he feels and seeking help because you truly dont want to hurt your girlfriend, and you realize what a wonderful relationship you have with her. best advice has already been given to you- stay away from this other girl/woman. dont take her calls. you hit it on the nail- she knows you are taken, and she IS trying to lure you in! get away from her. No girl that is sneaky enough to do that to you and your girlfriend should be trusted. if she expects you to cheat on your girlfriend, what makes you think anything relationship wise would have a as trustworthy? anyway, she is sabotage!!!
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